Men always want to be remembered as good lovers, moreover, the best that a woman has had in her life. Unfortunately, this is bad news for all husbands - they are usually not you. Women enjoy sex with their husbands, but do not consider them the best lovers they have ever been with, the results of an interesting study showed. It turns out that many women associate good sex with when they first experienced an orgasm or the first partner they fell in love with. Perhaps the most important factor influencing the assessment of a lover's 'ability' is idealization. In short, when thinking about lovers from the past, women forget ugly things, and remember the beautiful ones, and sometimes even exaggerate them. In fact, as the best lover a woman will cite a man with whom she once had sex to remember, although perhaps their other ‘games’ were average. Sex with a wife, as exciting as it is at first, over time becomes a ‘job’ for most couples that is routinely done, which influences a woman’s opinion that you are not the best lover she has had. It is another matter whether it will tell you this or leave you in blissful ignorance.