With a "Hi" it all started
With a "Hey" a conversation was initiated
Smiles were charming and radiating
Laughs were heart-tickling and warming
The beginning of an unknown love story began
She hit that emotional button of yours
Click! click! you were drawn in
She had you where she wanted you
You fell at her mercy
All in the name of love
She constantly heaped her problems on you
You carried it with all pleasure
Even when you were dying inside
You chose to die with her problems
Not minding the consequences
You were so ready to do anything
Just for her pleasing
Even if it meant to fight against God and His angels
You believed you would easily win
Because you loved her
You were her source of happiness
Her source of strength and courage
Through her dark times, you were the light
Her consolation from God in the time of distress
All these made you stay
You fell for her sweet-tongue and accolades
Her praises encouraged you to do more
They made you wanna pull down mountains
All in the name of love
But all were lies and deceits of a lustful scheme.
She gave you momentary joy and happiness
Other times it was neglect and trouble
She made sure you were kept humble and defeated
Even when she was wrong,she blamed you
A mistress of emotional blackmail she was
She wanted to control everything about you
She wanted to have you at her beck and call
To do her every bidding without omission
Even at your own expense
All she wanted was her own selfish desires
But how could you be so blind and obstinate?
How could you have not known?
That this was going nowhere?
That the road leads to perdition?
That this kinda thing will surely end in sorrows?
How could you not have seen those times?
When your voice was irritating rather than soothing
Your words spiteful rather than calming
When she only tolerated you other than loving you
When she hinted on being tired of you
I guess you were still drowning in the misery of blind love
When she secretly pulled out to leave
While you stayed to keep the love afloat
Still believing in a love that was long gone
A sinful love in the eyes of the Lord
But hey Man! don't be disheartened!
Don't be heartbroken in tears
Be brave,be strong and move on
Because that's one of the challenges of love
The reason it's complicated and cruel
Don't feel used and stupid
Don't feel embarrassed and shameful
Just because you loved with your heart
But be happy because you acted like what you are
A Man who truly loved like a man
Don't regret but learn!
That's why mistakes are important
To teach and guide us through the rigours of life
Because a man without mistakes is inexperienced
And experience my friend,is the best teacher
Don't forget but rejoice!
That you once again loved with your heart
That you poured out yourself like a libation
For a heart who never saw your worth
No matter how hard you tried to show it
Move on and don't go back to that shit
Because that's what dogs do
And you my friend,is a golden asset not a dog
Worth more than anything you can think about
Invaluable than the most valuable assets
But then, don't blame her. Why?
She's a woman and that's who she is
Love for a woman is always gonna be about her
Why? because she's a receptive being and you the Man is a giver
And when she stops recieving from you,I bet you know what's gonna happen
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