Does life actual get easier? Or we get stronger and tougher?
If am to ask one question, I would ask if the journey through life get easier ? As an individual as you grow from one stage of life to another, are things getting easier or getting tough?
Let me say , sometimes we dwell in the world of dazzlement which I would call dazzling mirage. We tend to believe that things will get better , that life get easier.
I have done an honest assessment to see how true this is but I realised that as we grow from one stage to another, life doesn't get easier but human get stronger .
There are basically 5 stages of life. The infant stage I would say is the best stage of life because you don't fend for yourself. You are 100% dependent on family and whether they like it or not, they must provide for you.life at this stage is amazing.
The second stage which is the childhood stage is like the infant stage but at this point such a child could point out what he wants and still it will be provided. Even if there is no good at home, you must have to provide for the child even if you have to go borrowing. Life at this stage is beautiful.
The third stage is the adolescent stage.
At this stage there are things that are your sole responsibility and you don't depend on anyone outside you to accomplish it for you. At this stage ,you do certain things and undertake certain chores. At this stage you are responsible for your actions and reactions.
Somethings you may want will not be provided as it was when you were a child. You are developing. This stage of life is the learning stage.
The fourth stage is the youthful stage which is the most destructive stage of life and also the most progressive stage of life. At this stage so many things inform our decisions,actions and reactions. We tend to take full responsibility of our lives whether good or bad. At this stage we are already gaining full independence from our family mostly our parents. This stage of life I call the struggling stage.
The next stage is the adulthood stage.
The way you would live in this stage depends on how you managed your youthful stage.
If you have a successful youthful stage, your adulthood will be a better one but if otherwise, the suffering gets better. At this stage of life, your strength is already declining and you realise that what you were doing at your youthful stage with ease will become so difficult near to impossibility.
As we progress through life,it doesn't get easier but human get stronger to meet the challenges of the day.
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