If we have perfect love, we shall know that God is not seeking to harm us, but when we are in the midst of trials, temptations, and griefs, and into our pains, He is there to make us perfect, and for us to tested through our faith in him.
When we cease to worry about what will going to happen to the future, and instead beginning to believe that God loves us, and means to do us good, we shall trust Him then. All our troubles and worries will disappear, and everything will be in the will of our Lord, Jesus Christ our savior.
Through abiding God you will become Christlike in character. The Lord desires us to stand by His side, as a loving, kind, patient, and a humble child of God. The Lord see to it that the laborers in His service and ministry shall represent His love.
Our relations with one another should be pleasant. When we do good things to others and make things right in there, the Spirit of love will lead us through as what the Spirit of God guide us through.
So, we should reflect ourselves to God and keep close to the side of Christ and accept Him as your personal savior.