Infinite Point In A Relationship

In today's world, where almost everything is a deep fake, it's hard to find relationships that are built on true foundational block of trust, loyalty and love. Of course, with the advancement in technology and standard of living, not to mention the fast pace of today's living, it's becoming easier to make 'friends' in theory. That's a talk for another day. But to find true friends who are out to see you grow and will stuck their necks out for you in times of trouble is not as easy as it looks.

This is because, majority of the people you call friends are 'friends' because they are getting something from the relationship, and normally that's not a bad thing; why should I stay in a friendship that's not helping become better or is not productive? The problem here isn't that people desire gains from the relationship they make these days, it's that they are willing to get those gains at your detriment if need be and are not out to make sure you get something from the relationship as well. The moment they stop getting that thing they usually get from the relationship, they'll walk away, in the hard times, they won't be there.

So, if you do have one of those relationship that are real, cherish it my friend. That will bring us to the topic of today. As we know, in every relationship, whether romantic, work or business relationship, there will be conflicts at some point due to differences. It's only natural seeing as no matter how closely related, connected we are or how much we have in common, we are still different and unique in many ways. This results in us differing in certain things and beliefs. At times like this, it's important to be careful how we handle these conflicts and differences, so as not to cause irreparable damage to the relationship.

People have this nothing that among friends or between partners there can be no wrong, everything goes, this couldn't be farther from the truth. No matter how close you are to your Friend, partner, colleague or business mate, you should know there are certain lines you shouldn't cross and certain things you shouldn't do. While some of these things are universal, everybody also have those that are unique to them. It behoves you to known these line and boundaries and to do everything in your power to respect them.

Another common notion in relationships is that everything is forgivable, that friends are supposed to forgive each other of every sin and wrong, this isn't correct. There are some certain things that can be seemingly unforgivable, and you can't blame the unforgiving party. This is what I call infinite points in a relationship, and they aren't supposed to be touched, tampered or trifled with. The things is even if the wrong is forgiven, they'll never be forgotten, and will always cast a shadow on the relationship for a very long time or forever. The relationship might never return to what it used to be.

Conclusion

While it's a measure of how connected you are in a relationship, it's important you know the boundaries and lines of the other party in the relationship. You might want to argue there's none between you and the other party, but I'm telling you that you're wrong, and I hope you don't find out the hard way.

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