Many of us dont like the idea of being friends with your ex.
Some of us thinking that if you are friends with your ex you're cheating but no. Wrong belief in this case.
Being friends with your ex is what you called maturity. Yes maybe they hurt us but it doesnt mean that we need to forget them, we need to hate them. What about the happy memories that you guys shared to each other?
I am not saying that after break up you need to talk to him/her then ask them if you can be friends. No its not like that. I am saying is you can be friends in the future, forget all the hatred and move on. Just think that once in our life they make us happy.
Me to be honest as long as possible i want to keep all my ex as my friends because I value more the memories than the pain they've caused.
And if you are into relationship explain to your partner and give them assurance that it is pure friendship no string attached but of course people are different. Some can understand but some cant.
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So faarr hihihu I have 2 EXes but we're friends. ๐.