What's a relationship without drama, as long as it involves two seperare persons there's bound to be fun, disagreement, laughter, games, joy and some bad event, but amidst this the love bond is capable to keep the ship sailing. But then we wouldn't like it that much If there occasionally isn't somethings to spice up the mood. Especially with the ladies, could just sit and think of the next available trouble to create, well it's all for fun. Imagine playing a video game or watching your football match, just then she wants to see her favourite sitcom show, the annoying quarrel and fight but soon one of you have got to give in to the other.
If you feel yours is too crazy and annoying, then wait still he travels or she travels for a week or two then come back to complain. Lol, the bond is invisibly tight, we often don't recognize the use of the Moody days until absence start serving our memories, with throw back occurrences, you could just seat and smile through the ride. Don't forget to tell him or her you love them every single time you have the chance, don't feel awkward trying to make your partner feel good, if you don't then who should.
The world has gotten so crazy now, that people divorce over issues that our parents experienced and strive through. Of course some marriage break are for the best and advisable especially in matter of domestic violence or in anyway unhealthy for either partner or their kids, so to this a split is a better option. However you can agree that few others have broken years long of marriage over very minute matters, one of the craziest is "I just don't feel the love anymore" why? Nothing really, I just don't feel it anymore, immediately you should know such woman or man was previously attracted to somethings about the spouse but not really in love with what makes the person the person, its not beauty, its not money nor possessions, its not physically attributes but rather personality. Do you really love every bit of them, this style of loving doesn't fade with age nor die with money.
We are not backing out over a few quarrel, do we understand the meaning of our vows, its a matter of commitments. When we say "For better or for worse" did we just lipsing, its a commitment to say no matter what I'm never letting go, I'm sure about my decision, I don't just love your looks or possession I love everything about you and I'm sure I'll be happy to spend everyday with you. When the fight comes, we fight with all anger and emotion not because we hate our spouse but rather because we know we are not going anywhere therefore we must find a way to coexist, so if I don't like this or that, I've got to let you know so we can coexist, I'm not going anywhere for sure so this problem has to go, if its a habit you dislike then we are definetly going to find a solution to it and now.
The drama's are stories to tell, it makes our love life quite fun as long as its not a deliberate act to get your partner sad, as long as you're not cheating on him or her, and it's just a mere misunderstanding, do unto others what you want them to reciprocate. Its a wicked act to hurt someone who you both have made a commitment to live for each other, almost like a team player betraying the full team, the hurt, the betrayal, these does not in anyway spice up a relationship, this causes bitterness and at such should be avoided.
We need a shoulder to cry on when something bad happens and we need a listening ear to talk to when the world suddenly go deaf on us. Who best than the one you love so much, who understands you more than anyone in the world. Who knows how to get your mood right, knows exactly what to do. We need each other to keep the fire burning. Love right and love would continue to win.
Drama's are inevitable in a relationship, but rather than being bothered about it, we should enjoy the moment, knowing fully well we are stucked together, we ain't going nowhere, till death do us part.
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