Understand More, Judge Less
Good evening dreamers!! How's your Monday, I hope that you started your new week with a positive and productive act. On the other hand, I also hoping that you didn't forget to take some break from your hectic schedule. Since I am still ashamed on what happened yesterday, I choose to stay on our home and lay down on my bed. Guess what? I also find it boring to scroll on my phone and to sleep so I just clean lue backyards. I think that I make my day a little bit productive.
Full of judgemental but only few can really understand. In this kind of society where we live in, we can easily count on our fingers who is the one who can fully understand the situation. Some of them will just point and highlights our mistakes in a certain thing. You tried to explain the things but they already stick on the theories that they make inside their mind. Basically it's one of the common problem to us, we easily utter bad words on some people and it leads us to be toxic and immature one. And the worst about it, sometimes people also tell his unreal judgement to others that leads them to gossiping you. It seems that it is too late to clean the mess they made because they already judge you over and over again.
We need a person who is mature and can understand rather than judging someone's situation. Maybe, they can observe what are you doing but they can't really see what's happening inside of you. They can't realize that you only did such thing because you've also been hurt, stressed, sad, angry and broken but you didn't mean to act in that way. And also if you didn't harm someone physically and emotionally, I believe that they don't have a right to judge you. They only see the 1% or sometimes nothing of your true feelings so they should shut their mouth instead of blabbering nonsense judgement. Better than judging them is to trying to put your situation on their shoes. What if you are the one who experience that thing? What if you are also the one who received nonsense judgement? Can you also cope up with it? I guess not all of us have the courage to overcome that because hearing bad and misleading judgement can also affects us mentally, so better to be considerate on their feelings at least. Being too much judgemental will not benefited and will not help you to grow.
Sometimes because of not understanding someone and because of judging them easily, we lost good people in our life. I believe on the saying that we will know who's the real when we are on the lowest part of our life. The one who stay is the one who truly cares. But sadly, only few stays and many also judge us. It is so sad that we trust them so easily but they judge us by that. Moreover, we should not let ourselves to be persuade by the bias judgement of others. Don't believe on them because mostly around half of it is sometimes a gossip. It's already 2022 , so don't easily believe on that unless the person who was talking about shared to you the reality behind that issue. As much as possible, don't open your mouth if you only spill some tea and opinions that don't have a justified basis.
And for those who always be a victim of misjudgment, I know how tiring it is but as much as you can, don't talk back to them because the more you involve yourself to them, the more wrong judgement you will receive. Even you let them explained your situation, sometimes they still didn't listen because they want to believe what they believe. So let them bark while you are continuing to be a better version of yourself. Even there's a lot of bias judgement about you, at the end of the day you are the only one who knows the real you. You are the only who can survive yourself so don't let the misjudgment deceived and let you down. Stand and prove to them that they are wrong and they should understand you before.
Thank you awesome dreamers for keep supporting me through commenting, reading and up voting my articles. Thank you also to my dearest sponsors who didn't forget to showered their motivations on me. My journey will not be that long without your support and of course without the love of Rusty. So Thank you and I hope that everyone will achieve their goals this month.
There's a lot of judgemental people langga so we better be prepared for everything. Defend your own self.