I believe that each of us only wants to become happy on their life. But because of some circumstances, sometimes we tend to forget on how to be happy. Maybe happiness can easily spelled out but the real meaning of it is very difficult to achieve. The truth behind this word cannot be describe using a word but feelings can do.
But how can you say that you really achieve your happiness? When you have a lot of money or you have a big house? Or maybe when you're someone you loved , loves you back? There is so many reasons why a person becomes happy.
But here's my 5 Ways to have a Happy life.
1. Don't pretend .
Yes, it is first way to become happy. You should show your true feelings about a certain situation. Even it might hurt you at the beginning, you should revealed your emotions. We are not perfect so you must admit to yourself that sometimes you can commit mistakes in life. Don't try yourself to fit in on the world that doesn't suit you since the beginning. It's okay to be real than pretending to be someone else. The more you become real to others and to yourself , the more you can achieve the happiness in your life.
2. Learn to forgive.
Sometimes forgiveness is always a way to happiness. They say that the more we hold the pain on our hearts, the more our life becomes miserable and lonely. So you must forgive those people who hurt you before even thought that they don't apologize to you personally. Once we forgive, we can also have our freedom and through this we can freely do the things that makes us happy.You should forgive not only for them but most especially for yourself because you don't want to bothered yourself on the pain you've been experienced before. Forgiveness brought you a peace of mind and an inner happiness in your life. So forgive as much as you can.
3. Do the things that makes you happy.
It is a simple way to become happy. Just make the things that makes you happy. As much it doesn't affect to others life,you can actually do it. When I am sad, I always compose a poem or a song to lighten my mood and after that I become happy again. So, you must also find the things that makes you happy. Don't let the loneliness surrounds you. When we do this, we can also feel recharge and feel more alive. So don't take away the happiness from you.
4. Be contented.
I had noticed that most of the people who have a simple life becomes more happier than others. Maybe because they realize that wealth can't really buy the happiness that they wanted. Somehow, money can buy your happiness for the short period but we don't know until when it last long. Happiness is just simply being contented on what you have while you are work hard to achieve your goals. Being contented doesn't mean that you stopped dreaming more but is implies that you are thankful enough on what you have while you are working on your other desire.
5. Be simple
Life is a simple but sometimes we are the one who makes it complicated. If you would realize that being simple is actually another kind of happiness. A simple person don't bothered about what might happen to the future and bothered to go back to their past because they are simple living to their present without any regrets and fear.The best way to become simple is to expect nothing and to be grateful to everything. Life is too short , so we must choose to live simply but happily.
Life Thought
Maybe a person can't find his happiness because he might afraid that once he comes out to his comfort zone ,he will become more miserable. But life doesn't mean that because life is all about risk. You should be prepared to take a risk in order to achieve your happiness. If you really want to have a Happy life, don't let others judgement be the superior to your life. You should enjoy every drop of your life because we can't assure on the things that might happened to us. The rule in life is to "Be true then be happy". And I believe that matters the most.
