Mama baba's ideal kids, who can never do anything wrong but, what If we want to see the world beyond?
LIES; are something that when spoken makes us feel that we can dismiss all our problems and push ourselves closer to people, and maybe even stay closer to them.
But a lot of times, a lie is not an escape, Often in our lives, It starts to feel so crucial that we end up lying repeatedly, Be it an important issue or a useless one, it doesn't matter if the denying or lying doesn't make sense at the moment, we just unintentionally or maybe knowingly start lying, It is a kind of weird habit, or rather an illness that pulls us and our one true meaning away ourselves to somewhere far off, where we lose the ability to answer our questions.
These lies sometimes become our habit because we wanted to do everything that our family, friends, or anyone had ever stopped us from doing, we want to explore everything that we always thought of discovering and the lies were the key to everything that I wanted to do.
But we all know, A good thing is often followed by a bad thing.
Sometimes we don’t even have reasons, but still, we do lie, besides it being a habit.
This whole situation, this whole thing or maybe we can a habit always ends up at the point in life, where these lies took away a person or a thing, that were near dear and important to us.
We think that maybe lies would lessen the fights, but the fact is relations grow stronger with truth and trust, and not because of lesser fights.
Whenever I lie, I always ask myself why am I lying?
And there was only one answer to this question,
And that is “FEAR”,
Of what? Of not being able to do the things we always wanted to do, and Of losing the people who always meant so much to us.
There was only one way of fighting this fear,
Which is looking yourself in the mirror, and explaining to yourself and explaining to the fear, Looking into the eyes of fear and telling that, “Nobody, not even a single person, can ever stop me from doing anything, So base yourself on the courage, not on the pillars of fear”
Because, The pillars of fear and lies will fall apart, But if you would base upon belief and courage, everything in your life will be alright.
step-up in life, and the ought should remain that ;
“I would not lie to myself".