One of the basic needs of a human being is to find his place in society and become embraced and loved in it. However, sometimes the price for this is too high and implies a loss of peace of mind, because when at all costs you want to be accepted in circles where you have no place, you end up out of them hurt and broken, unless you first accept yourself and set yourself up as someone who knows his values regardless of the opinion of the environment.
There are many people from the shadows, who will choose to keep their opinion, because of their own insecurity, which will grow, because they allow others to express their opinion about them and make them even more introverted. If you are one of them, it is time to learn how to fight for your place in society and silence other people's opinions.
1. Choose to hear the opinions of others only when you recognize good intentions in them. Only when someone who means enough to you starts commenting on you and your actions can you consider his opinion and consider whether there is a grain of truth in him that you should start working on.
2. There are certain people around whom you feel bad because they are constantly choking you with their comments about you and your life. An important life lesson is to learn to avoid, and then completely exclude such people, in order to regain peace of mind and faith in yourself.
3. Accept that no one is perfect. Do your best to wake up every morning as a new, better version of yourself, but don’t give up after every failure. Life is a polygon with a bunch of obstacles, and you are here to fight to overcome each of them, so get up and fight, without looking back at the previous mistake, because everyone makes mistakes, and only the smart learn from their own mistakes.
4. Although we often want to feel socially accepted, this does not mean that we have to agree without discussion with all the attitudes that society imposes on us. To find your place under the sun, you have to listen only to yourself, choose only what is right for you and live only according to your norms. Only when you put yourself and your principles first will people really start listening to you and appreciating you. So, in order to please others, you must first like yourself!
5. People have the right to their opinion and no one can take it away from them. You, on the other hand, have the right to your life and live it exactly the way you want. Other people's opinions are like a song that you don't like, you can silence it, or turn it off completely and calmly continue your day.
Don't let other people's malicious comments make you doubt yourself. You have to believe in your decisions and defend your right to live freely by choosing not to hear unimportant people, smile broadly at them, give them a compliment, turn your back and boldly move towards that better version of yourself, which is eagerly waiting for you somewhere.
