Useful Enemies

Enemies are not always to be hated on, but they can be studied and known how to use them to your favour. A lot of benefits you can gain from enmity, so lot of benefits. Let's dive into discussing.

I recollect from my previous article, I had said the best time to make decision isn't when you're over excited or under excited, and being around friends brings you closer to being either, when its time to work your enemies would be rather productive compared to friends, why I'll be sharing in detail below. Friends are good company no doubt but with friends you should more vigilant compared to an enemy whose hatred you both are already aware of, in a position to needing help from you or a desired position he has more to proof of his loyalty to you compared to your friend who feels obligated to be helped. Mistake people make is feeling anyone you help would be contended and forever in your debt, so they bring them closer and groom them, yet because you're friends your emotions blinds you to the little red flags and you just don't want to believe they cant hurt you until they do, and believe me they know how best to hurt you and when they want to they would do it well.

Its a charade to feel your friends won't get jealous over your achievements, because we are friends he should be my number 1 supporter, but you forget in a world where competition is a feature anyone in a confinement is actively playing the competition. You can either choose to believe and work smarter or believe for security, either ways believe this fact. Why must you be the one in the spotlight, if we are friends then we are equal, then why not me, why are you the loved one, you must expect this thought from the ones closest to you, a saying goes keep your friends close and your enemies closer, the world is wiser that way. If you had a fallout with a now enemy, you both are completely award of each others intention, and are constantly on the watch, the longer the enmity shows the enemy is a worthy contender, cause if not you should have dealt with him or her long ago. Also seeing he is worthy and strong as you're there is the fear of him or her taking you by surprise so you both are constantly on your toes, vigilant, this feeling is good but deep down you both want peace.

In the quest for winning, because peace won't work if you both still posses same power, one has to succumb for peace to be established, you must find a way to make them work for you, then they see it as a kindness on their part, and a way to get the peace they want, but you can do this when you already have the upper hand, if you are too scared that they would one day turn on you, then end them completely, I mean completely with no atom of remorse, because if they are strong as you they can surely bounce back to you, so you must end all likely competition to remain as the top.(Ending them doesn't mean killing in this age as it is a federal crime, there are smarter ways to end an opposition by removing their power and will).

Never be so loving in the quest for power that you bestow your friend with so much to the extent he or she is powerful enough to harm you, life has taught us to keep a close eye on friends, cause their main intentions remains unknown hidden in the laughter and fun and so claimed love. If you want to remain on top, then your brain must surpass your emotions at all times. Keep a close eye watch them with great suspicion they make the best of enemies and if they really becomes your enemy then you're in trouble, they know how, where and when to strike, and the grown and long natured hatred might have no mercy for you. If possible try them, to see if they pass the test. Even then still be suspicious. Research on memory lane, history has shown that the greatest rulers and the mightiest general were brought down by their most trusted subject or best friend. The quest for power and fame is inevitable, if you are opportune to be preferred amidst your friends, in any area, be it job, spouse, sport, money, expertise, education name it, in any area of life, you must know that you must fight to stay ahead or give up the position. To whom much is given much is expected. No king sleeps with is two eyes closed, not even in the time of peace.

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