Its not enough to act along with ones emotions, in any and every aspect of life, be it at work, home, even in the environment, one thing we must know is that there's no one who will always do it our way, everyone is different, as far as you are in constant dealings with people, there is definitely going to be a disagreement. When you hear people say they have anger issues, its not that they were created to get angry well, its just that they act on their anger more than others, everyone gets angry, even the bible (the holy book for Christians) acknowledges the fact that someone can get angry but don't let it becloud you, so yes every one has the temperament, everyone has what get them wanting to break something or scream, just to get back at an opponent, I mean everyone, but its best we have the knowledge on how to act and think even while you are angry.
Imagine putting a nail through a wall because you are angry, then after you have eased down, you see the ugliness of the wall, then you remove the nail, that's good right?, but how do you close the hole the pierced nail has created? This is exactly what happen when we don't use our head most times and carry out actions as our emotions lead. Great leaders are know for their emotional control. To be able to get a desired result from any situation either tensed or not, it needs you conform to diverse personalities as the situation changes. So times you need to be violent, some times you need to mellow down, sometimes you need to be a coward, sometimes you need to stand upright, it all requires the activity of your thinking faculty.
There's always a limit ones actions gets to, it then isn't in his or her control any longer, it surpasses them and can even back fire at them, more reason why we must keep it on check at all times. Many has acquired scars that they have got to carry for life, now anything they see the scar or are faced with the mirror, there would be a quick flashback to that unfortunate day, they even envisioned how it would be if it had gone different. Hoping for a second chance is really not being realistic rather we equip ourselves so that we can seize any opportunity as it comes, second chances don't happen to an injured already, let's look out for ourselves and act with the best possible actions. Yea best possible actions cause sometimes violence is needed.
There is a balance to everything in life. A balance between too good and too bad, being too bookworm and also being street wise, a balance to being quite and speaking out, a balance to overfamiliarity and isolation, a balance to smile and frown, a balance to everything, and this should be known. Life is a constant pursuits for happiness. We are striving to live large as well as live healthy. So we must act smart at all times, not every dispute we must treat urgently, some needs to be overlooked for the main time, especially if there's little or nothing you can do for the time being, we leave to fight another day when you are more certain of victory. Winning is the goal, and just as in the military, we must plan strategically, so we counter the opponent and seize the win.
Today, let's think first before we act, as better results have been known to exist such ways. Take a moment to analyse, a moment to think of the action as well as the reaction expecting. You can easily envision from a study of the situation and the people involved, what their reaction would likely be for your intended action, before you carry them out. Most times you only need about 5 minutes of rest before the issues is no longer a bother for you, you see no more reason why you should go ahead with the plan you want to carry out formerly, its all resolved. Also there are times even after taking few moments to think you are yet still anger to react, but now you can react smarter and more effective, so far you use the waiting period to think well.
Generally, anger is bad but it is natural so it must be studied and known how to work on smartly.
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