You are responsible for your well-being

You are responsible for your well-being

Many times we blame others for our actions or when we feel bad, "if he hadn't treated me like that I would be better now, if she hadn't told me that I wouldn't have done this." But others should not influence how we feel, they are not responsible for our feelings or our actions because it is you who gives importance to what others say or do, just as it is you who has the power to decide about your life and the responsibility for your future.

Every decision we make in our lives is important and influences the rest of it, so it is something that you should not take lightly and not give others the power to decide for you.

You must know that you are in charge of your life and that it is you who must direct your life. Walking aimlessly or without direction is going to depress you and fill you with dissatisfaction. That is why it is important that you take the reins and that you are the one who decides what you want to do because if you leave that decision in the hands of third parties in the long run it is not something that will satisfy you. When you make decisions and start directing your life, when you start worrying about your future and make the decision to improve your life, you will be much better, you will do much better and it will help you feel better about yourself. In the same way, the actions of others should not influence how you feel, you should focus on yourself and that way the outside world will not harm you.

Daniel Pink, an American author in one of his books pointed out that long-term regrets can arise from decisions we do not make.

Therefore, decide and do for yourself and for you. You are responsible for your life, do not give others the power to influence it negatively.