The reason it's better to be silent when you're emotional

Not necessarily everything that has thoughts and emotions in our hearts must be expressed, Before speaking and voicing our emotions, we have to think twice or maybe a thousand times before actually saying it, we may have experienced it, where emotions have peaked and then vented it, some people also have to feel the dark foam of the words that have been spilled, these are some of the reasons why it is better for us to be silent than to speak.

*Words that have been spoken cannot be taken back

Consider and think before speaking, don't be a person who can't control or get out of control when speaking, not everything has to be said, get used to thinking before speaking, consider the good and the bad first.

* A wise person listens more than talks

Wisdom is the fruit of knowledge, and we can take knowledge when we are willing to accept everything that comes from other people, and listening is one of them, by listening a lot we will know other people's perspectives, with more listening we will also have the opportunity to considering everything, by listening a lot means we learn to control ourselves, wise people will usually listen more, but once speaking and uttering words, wise people will speak frankly in full meaning and of course useful.

*words reflect the contents of the brain

People who have a lot of experience and knowledge will always be easier to understand than people who just talk nonsense.

* bad words will continue to stick

We can't control someone to turn a deaf ear to our bad words to that person, but we can hold our mouths from saying something bad, taking back words before they are spoken is much easier than taking back words that have already been spoken, every bad word we say to someone other people will always stick in their minds, a negative impression on us.

*people speak according to their character

A person's character can be seen from how he walks, how he shakes hands, including how he speaks, a highly educated person when speaking must use a high vocabulary, different from an uneducated person, a wise person will speak calmly, an honest person will speak fluently, as well as people who have an angry character will certainly speak with anger.

*Solution is more important than angry

The opportunity to be silent and calm the mind will also provide time and space to find solutions to the problems we are facing, we will also save energy by not wasting energy to get angry.

Silence is safer than having to regret later.