Before trying to love someone else, make sure that you had loved yourself first. Make sure that you have completed your inner you before going through a relationship cause if not you will just break your heart again. You yourself will break your heart and in that case you will not be complete when it comes to loving again. You might regret the day that you will be left with nothing again but pain. Loving yourself is the first stage where you have to complete yourself from pain first and then moulding your own emotional self to be complete again from heartaches and pains. If you already knew to yourself that you are ready then that is the time that you can tell yourself that you can love again. Self healing is very important to those who encountered too much pain. Remember, never give up on loving but be sure that you love yourself first before getting into a relationship.