Marital relationship is the name of staying with a person even though he never knows.
What does correction mean? Be what you want to be. Can anyone become like someone's mind in the end? It doesn't seem to be possible, but the two of them can stay side by side by accepting each other as they are.
It doesn't need love, it needs friendship. My friend may not be like me, but I am willing to accept him as he is, because he is accepting me as I am. Its name is friendship.
It is better to have such friendship in marriage, otherwise it becomes difficult to survive. The problem is, most of the time, when a man gets married, he wants a friend even though he wants a friend by word of mouth. Unable to get out of that desire, he unknowingly does something that a friend never does with a friend.
Sometimes love lasts even if faith in love is lost, but once faith in friendship is lost, friendship never comes back. It's not that you can't forgive your friend anymore, it's that you will feel foolish to trust that person. Then if you want to make friends again, you have to keep reckoning with him. The truth is, the name of this account is actually marital, not friendship.
Loved for so long, never had such a problem; But two people came out of there. But as soon as he got married, the two of them started thinking of each other as husband and wife, from where the friendship seemed to be lost! Everyone is like themselves, no one is usually like anyone else. Yes, man can sometimes become like the mind of the man he loves. Why is that? That is why it is good to be like that. If you do not like it, it would not be! This may or may not happen in two ways, it is necessary to get married keeping this in mind. What I like, why should someone else like it? You can say, what makes your husband or wife another? I will say, thinking wrong! Think a little cold! In fact, everyone in this world except one is another!
People love themselves the most in the subconscious mind. Why love another? I love because I like to love. Why do you love your child? I love the child as my own. Where, this love does not come so much in the case of the next child! If you love the next child, if my child is like that, or if he is like my child --- I love him thinking all these things. Exclude everything else. This is the man who commits suicide, why? You can't bear the pain, do you? There, too, the failure to keep oneself well works, and nothing else.
This is the child that hurts but people still love him, its name is Moh or Maya. In the beginning the love for the child is born, and from there he cannot get out. This Maya thing comes from habit, from a kind of tension. The love that is here, its name is friendship --- the union of soul with soul. That's why people turn themselves around so much more than others turn their noses with ropes! Man actually enslaves himself, the name of this slavery is slavery to his love or habit, although he says in his mouth to forgive himself, I am falling into Maya and enduring such slavery!
A friend can be told everything, but after being told, some people no longer have friends. Then I think, alas, who I thought was a friend! In fact, not everyone deserves to be friends. Some are born just to be husband or wife. People reach the truth one day through such various mistakes. Some people think of snakes when they see ropes, some people think of ropes when they see snakes. In the end, the truth is caught by people --- without being bitten by a snake or bitten by a rope!
In this modern age, friendship is more important than love.