The people you should never listen to

THE PEOPLE YOU SHOULD NEVER LISTEN TO

You have heeded this No one is an isle of expertness. So true you need someone to be somebody. I guess this is not news "No one is useless...never underrate anyone". Of course true too. But if they are there to add value to you.

You have also heard this "Too much of culinarian loot the brook". While it is good to listen to someone, not every piece of advice will help you.

Enough of quotes, let me focus on the message I am here to share.

Do you know that not everyone is there to help you succeed? Even the ones that are too good. Hmmm... Here comes the banger! Yeah, some people are too good and innocently preventing you from succeeding... Hold on! Let's take a walk. Before I tell you, people, that you should not listen to, let me quickly show you people that are sure to always worthy of your attention. THOSE PEOPLE WILL MAKE YOU PROGRESSIVE!

1. PEOPLE THAT ADD TO YOU: anyone that adds to you includes your mentor, your teacher and advisers. These are people that impact you with needed skills and knowledge. In this group is constructive critics. They not only show you the deficiency but provide a means out of one. Sometimes if they can't, they refer you to someone who can. So listen to them!

2. PEOPLE WHO encourage YOU: This includes your good wisher, fans and supporters. They may not know too well, but always telling you to do more. Always pushing you forward, even if you don't feel sufficient!

3. PEOPLE WHO SUPPORT YOU:  These supporters are like the first category, they refer you to people who can help if they can't(knowing fully well they can't). They help you with sponsors and promoters.

Having known people you should listen to, then who are those that are not worthy of your attention. THOSE PEOPLE THAT WILL NOT MAKE YOU PROGRESSIVE!

1. PEOPLE THAT DRAIN YOU OF YOUR ENERGY AND CONFIDENCE: Avoid this set of people. They don't believe in your dream, they are always playing the critics-  The it- is- not- possible people.

2. PEOPLE THAT INNOCENTLY DISCOURAGES: well, while this may be hard to believe, it is also something to do. Thomas Edison, I guess would have such a category of people not that they are not supporters, or fans or good advisers but innocently will discourage you because they are tired of seeing you wasting time and resources. They have seen others tried and failed. So they concluded, this is IMPOSSIBILITY.

This person at that junction, you know how to wisely avoid their advice. Because you must not also offend them except. On special occasions!

If there is any need for my write up. Then it is against INNOCENT DISCOURAGERS.  It is now left to you to know when they are true or not. Are we clear on this?

let me quickly add this, Edison with all 1000 tries, I did nothing new to inventing the light bulb than adding and turning a bolt. The original inventor gave in to the innocent advisers...it will not work and he believed. Imagine just a bolt is what made him an inventor.

Just a try... one more, is what will make you a success

DO THIS IF YOU WANT TO MAKE AN IMPACT

Whenever there is a problem, a solution should be the next thing. The problem can be personal or corporate. But whenever there is a solution, there seems to be side effect/s as events unfold. Take, for instance, most people used to buy a toothbrush called wisdom. Can you remember? Of course, you should except for the indomie generation. Later smokers, to address the same teeth washing. But the problem they are produced to addressed was solved at the expense of another problem. Mouth bleeding. Because the brush is too hard. Although they are doing a good job to their service, at the initiation of another problem. Then formula, a brush that addresses the deficiency of others. Soft and good for teeth washing.

Reader, if you want to make an impact, solve a problem or create value. Do something new or do it differently. People don't forget people that create value. Someone has done something, people like it. But you see a gap. Step up and fill it. People that love privacy and a decent cab love to take uber.

Is there no cab? Of course, there is?  Is  Uber price not expensive.?  Goodness way too high than danfo or normal cab. Do people book it yes...! Why? It solves a problem. Maybe you don't know. The solution someone is providing has an element of problem hiding in it. Waiting for the perfect day to step out.

Problem is everywhere and you have the solution. Just look inward and move forward. People don't forget impact. Make an impact and generations won't forget you. The bottom line does it differently or does something different.

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