Bouncing Back From Rejection You can possibly imagine how depressed I felt, how less I though they think of me. Rejection often messes with ones mind. The worst feeling is when you're rejected cause someone else wants to be accepted, just then we begin to evaluate ourselves trying to think of the best possible reason why we aren't selected. Do we know how to bounce off from this kind of intimidation and depression, how much of ourselves do we know and believe. That moment of rejection is the exact moment we should start reassuring ourselves to motivation, rejection has gotten people all around the world to believe there aren't that worth it. Luckily for the male gender, life has helped us to be able to deal with these more easily than the females, a typical Male is prone to being rejected, many of which has been rejected already more than once, although there are other aspects of rejection that don't necessarily entails trying to get a female for a partner, but this area of trying to get a girl to like you has an effect on the other areas. When one girl doesn't accept our plea to date us or become close to us, it really hurts but soon we see another girl and the craving comes to talk to her and we easily forget the previous girl who rejected our offer. Really in a way experiences can help us deal with situations better. A man because he has experienced rejection from a female and has bounce from successfully and presently with someone he loves and loves him in return, he would most likely accept the rejections from a job offer not gotten, or a disappointment. Same way he said to himself before, I don't mind, I know I'm enough and I'll get a girl soon, same way he would say to himself " I don't mind and I'll get a job soon" or even "I don't mind I know I'm enough and all would soon be well" such believe systems are good and can mostly be found in men, not because they were born that way but because experiences has taught them, that's why its advices that people take risk. Risk has one good side, as long as it's a calculated risk with a bearable possible loss then it is ok to try, but if the loss is going to be unbearable and the deal is under probability, a 50-50 chance, then it really isn't ideal to try it out. So let's say its the first instance of the risk being of bearable loss and well calculated at least, then it has a positive effect of building our minds to accepting the worst yet moving on without allowing it weigh us down, this would pay off overtime, especially when you have to teach people how to bear losses and keep being effective after many times of being trying and rejected. Don't get me wrong when I say men can deal with it more, of course some women are stronger and emotionally mature to accept whatever comes, the gender isn't the main factor, the main factor is experiences and how often one is willing to try again. However it's no jokes that ladies do have their way most times more than men do. People are naturally just soft to pleasing a womans need especially when she's attractive, but the moment that woman faces rejection, her body system changes and she's pissed off. It doesn't happen everyday so when that rejection happens it becomes a big deal, all hell might break loose, no wonder most ladies don't know how to take No for an answer. However it's good we understand life is full of ups and downs, I'm not talking about knowing it's TRUE, I'm taking about understanding its true. Rejections are bound to happen to anyone no matter of ones status in the society. We should know how to receive being rejected yet not backing down on pushing on. I like to see things from a spiritual angel, I do my prayers and I believe God has the best for me, if I try getting something and it seems to keep drifting far away from me, I may just believe it isn't the will of God and I'll try shifting focus, though may keep trying on that every one and then. Lastly rejection is no yardstick for revenge, people would naturally do what they feel and believe, not necessarily because you're hated or incompetent, so when we hate because we went through rejection, it really isn't nice. Infact holding on to the rejections is the first wrong, we also would reject a lot of people of things. We can't possibly please everyone. The best we can do is to get over it as soon as possible. What is the true definition of who you are? Its simply what your believe you are, humans are not 100% flesh, infant we are more spirits than we are flesh and our spirits are magical beings, not limited not restricted, so you see how wrong we are if we feel bad from rejection. Never hang on to the thought of being undesirable or unwanted, it's totally wrong, people would always say or do what pleases them and the mood they are in as at the time, we also should think and say to ourselves what we want to feel and believe. Move away from the feeling of rejection, bounce out of it and you'll see how beautiful the other place can be. When we shut one door then we can open another and see what that place has in store for us. Don't be afraid to move on, emotionally bounce away from that rejection. Thank you everyone for reading through this article, its always a magical experience with you all here. I love you all. Bless.
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Caution: Giving Up At Owners Risk Have you read the new headlines, its now risky to give up. Giving up has become more toxic than bearing, we have seen the statistics and have realized that people who gave up are soon to wish they at least tried. So today I'm here to talk on the magical feeling of trying, that point when it doesn't matter if you fail or not, you just want to keep moving and doing what you love to do. However giving up is not only at owners risk anymore, giving up has is also a risk to the family and those related to you. I mean you didn't think your life was for you and you alone, you aren't responsible for yourself alone. There are more than thousands of people who would benefit from your uprising, so don't you think it's best to help them by working so great on yourself. We should know that the world we live in today is greatly affected by association, a person in high position would most likely assign people who are closer to him or related to him more than he would based on merits. Very rare you see people rise and the family are not moved because they know he's too strict to change, maybe few people are but still those few would find a way of helping out to ensure the status quo of the family change totally. How about those entrepreneurs, these people who create job opportunities for others, they are also life savers, they may not be appreciate directly cause we they are there for their profits too, but the country would appreciate their effort, cause they have successfully reduced the unemployment rate, which is a good thing for the company and the nation all together. Families are grateful to the employer mostly for employing their relatives who is now on a payroll, but the person who truly deserves the appreciate is the job creator, for without him or her starting it all, there wont be any employer to start with, not to mention employees. People who never give up are the ones who truly make a change in our world today. They are the true heroes, and for those who is not giving up yet but not seeing the fullness of results yet, be rest assured that the results are soon to come as long as you don't relent yet. The risk infact is when we relent. Life is mysterious and that's what makes it magical, so we all don't know what the next minute holds, someone said and I quote "Tomorrow is pregnant, and no one knows what it would deliver", so we also don't know when our effort would pay off, so we keep trying, more reason we're adviced to love what we do. Beyond a doubt, true love for your craft would help in the continuing of the craft come rain or shine. A true singer would keep singing even when the money isn't forthcoming, but there are other singers that can completely abandon it and face something else where they can get money from. Listening to most success stories, you would rarely see someone who hasn't started doing what he or she is doing from a very age, those years till date shows focus, an unending consistency and ofcourse love, love for the task, cause true passion keeps on going. Why then do people give up? I guess first of all, its low expectations, probably before the journey commence they had these specific expectations in their head, now working the expectations aren't as they expected it, that disappointment often hurts. Another reason people give up easily is because of time. Some feel they don't have enough time to spend on one thing, so when they try something for a particular time and its not as they want it to be, immediately they switch, they can't predict which would be productive, they just want it to start working as soon as possible. But why should you give up? Truly there are sometimes that it's the right choice to give up. But when can we say it's the right time to give up. Firstly when you've researched so well about it and have understood the working process, then compare it to yours and see if there is need for possible adjustments or its better you leave it be. It really all boils down to understanding the task at hand, only then can you compare to see if it's best to hang on or completely drop. Some persons have started a career path and have seen how others are functioning, they've done all process similarly but that attraction is still missing. They could decide to try something new, if see if there's a light path there. Until the goal is achieved, there's really no need for giving up, there are so many silent voice crying to you to not give up, there are cheering you up to keep pushing, because a better for you is a better for. You also being the main beneficiary of your success should see to it that you don't stop halfway, let's keep pushing till success is achieved. Keep moving to greatness. Thank you everyone for reading today. The sky is only our starting point.
Greatest Starts With A Burden How true is this someone might want to debate, but I've come to believe it's so true and I'll try to table my points, also chip in some history especially biblical facts, moreover today being Sunday seems like a nice time to open the bible 😂, as well as talk about a few other history we can remember, let's see how this go. So in this magical world, we all are magical in our ways but among this numerous billions of magicians, there are still some selected few whom everyone respects as greater magicians, everyone is good but this individuals have proven to be great. Look around and handpick a few great men and let them say to us their journey thus far, maybe if this was a zoom meeting or a YouTube channel we could have found a way to play a biography so we all can see. We must agree that no one just wakes up great, there have been a rigorous task offscreen that not everyone knows about, also for the few to whom you would think was clearly luck, was never luck because they had either done somethings secretly or spiritually that accord them that position, or it was s reap for something someone else has done and they are only enjoying it unknowingly. So having established the fact that no one wakes up grace then we know it took journey, to every journey there's a destination and a task therein, many can start confused but as long as you aren't running with a vision or bearing then the journey hasn't really started, the journey starts when you finally start heading for the proposed location. And for you to get the journey to life and believe so much in it that it makes you great then it has got to have a task, a task that appeals to your spirit body and soul, it eats so deep that its becomes worth dying for, and I mean it when I say it becomes worth dying for, other people call it passion, I call it burden, I feel burden explains it better. A burden is a burning desire, a burning desire to do something and effect a change, in fact over the years changes have been know to be created via burdens, all inventors over time would never have been successful in their quest if their experiments were just based on fun and jokes, Thomas Edison should never have tried 999 times if all he was doing was to mere joking around, although the quest for getting a light bulb has been on for long, such number of try and repeated trying can only buttress one point, an undying passion and believe that's something is here, and he has got to discover it. Let's remember greatness like the likes of Abraham Lincoln, Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther king jr, to mention a few, you'll see clearly fighters, people who were not afraid to stand up and do the needful, even when the odds were against them, they had a tough time buy the zeal for what they wanted to do was strong on them. It's a burden, it doesn't need to be enforced, it builds it's own convictions inside of us and its what gets us movie against all odds, the greater we can keep pushing on this burden the greater we get announced, because the world is filled with people who back out easily, yet celebrate the people who stayed. Yeah remember I said we were going to open the bible to see more points to this claim that a burden is a fuel to greatness. Take the greatest man ever for an example, at age 12 the bible recorded that he was missing only to be found at the temple teaching and discussing with the teachers and scholars of the temple, his burden to share the knowledge of God was so much in him, he knew the people were yet to know God clearer and in a more compassionate dimension, so he kept pushing and expressing God as love, against all odds, even till death the passion for his mission consumed him, not my will but your will he said, the burden was greater than his love for self. How about King David who had the burning desire to protect what has been given to him, its was so normal for a shepherd to protect his sheeps but not when a lion or a bear is involved, this animals can kill both the shepherd and the sheep so its best to protect oneself first, however David was so zealous for his task that he fought and he won, same zeal got him to stand against injustice in Israel as he defeated Goliath, all thjs showing his true nature as fit for a leadership position and God was ready to hand over the kingdom of Israel to him, which ofcourse he ruled better, as he zeal now coupled with the anointing of God, all working together to making the kingdom the greatest. A million examples really exist as it is clear that burdens often lead us to the right path of destiny, some people have the burden to stop injustice as the great Nelson Mandela did and got south Africa their freedom, the great Abraham Lincoln as he stopped the slave trade, many others have a burden to see young lives transformed and so they build schools, they make workshops for technical learning to equip people, some have the burden to teach people the goodnews as they preach all around drawing people to Jesus Christ, others have burden to sing and when they do the world celebrates them. What's your burden, build on it and try to effect a change to your world. We are all great, and greatness lies within, let's go get it as we explore our passion and work it out till it becomes our identity. Thank you all who have taken time out to read, I appreciate your time, one love.
The Most Magical Force On Earth What is the most magical force on earth, I mean that one force that can create a permanent change. Once it works, its deeds can hardly be undone. Often time we look to create a change and merely looking at it, we would want to resort into many methods in order to arrive at our destination, many of which may work out but only for some time before it returns back to its original state or worst. All throughout history just one method has given us the change we want overtime and make it works permanently. Follow closely as we unveil what this magical force his? You have it, I have it, we use it but we don't often think it'll work because it takes longer time to function. Ok, I'll make it clearer, if you had super powers, what would you use it for, money, have your crush, make mama proud, buy a mansion, drive expensive cars, help people around, but if we can look at the aforementioned list critically, we would see that it's just sub grouped into two major aspect, money and relationship, I mean the cars, the houses you need, how you intend making mama proud, even how else do you want to help people around if not with money, even to impress your crush, I really guess money answers all things, so money covered it all, therefore we are not wrong to say anyone who wants a magical power would use it for wealth., so is Money the greatest force, Well No. We would be lying if we said money is not powerful, money is so loud and sorted after, that it feels like the world revolves around it, well there is yet another force, though silent but more powerful than money. People can do anything for money right, wait till you see the extent at which people can do for this more powerful force, I know you're guessing it already what I'm talking about, and you're correct, Love is the most magical force on earth, when love is the basis and it pulls through the heart, its effect is more lasting than what money can preserve. Love is the tool of God our creator to draw people into himself, as much as he craves that everyone would love and serve him and he very well has the capacity to make we all serve him, he doesn't need to use force or manipulate circumstances to make us run to him in fear, rather he keeps helping and showing undeniable love to us, but ofcourse since he is always merciful we are never valuing his availability to us as we should, yet he never leaves, soon we realize this and change, even when we later deviates from him, still his love never depreciates. Love is his tool. More reason why its advised that love be the founder for a family, money is good as it settles the needs of the home, without which peace can't reign, but more than you plan for money being existent, plan more for love being existent in the home. Let love be the basis, it can never go wrong. True love does all it takes to make it all better, true love is often the remedy to idleness and promiscuity. Where love is we see efforts to create a change and make it all work out trouble free. So many men can't believe how much they've transformed all in the quest to make their woman happy and vice versa. Money is good and keeps many issues out but money without love in a home will surely come to ruin, love without money also causes trouble too though, mostly because the loves gets onesided. Love encompasses everything we need for happiness, its patient, kind, harmless, affectionate, reliving, it's simply magical, sacrificial, it goes all out to do what's needed, true love often birth the pull to go and get money, doesn't make it easy to come by though but it builds the determination and consistency which increases ones chances of getting wealth. Permanently changed, hard to deny nor recover from are the after effects of love, so when we are looking to change someone or something, and we are looking for the best available methods, let's consider love first, in dating consider love first, in job consider the love for the job, ofcourse someone desperate for money would love any job as long as it fetches pay but shouldn't relent until he or she gets what the job he desires. Everyone deserves true happiness and true happiness resides in love, our today world thinks they can get true happiness with money, very possible cause money is the next most magical force, but love would always lead. Thank you for reading, may love be the foundation of our home and money always residing with us, I wish us all true happiness even has we experience the most magical force on earth being love.
Relax And Feel Life Human and worries are becoming fastly inseparable, we always worry and even in times where things are going smoothly, when we should be relaxing we worry again because we feel its abnormal to be without worries, someone once said he was worried because everyone was going so well that he became suspicious, he wanted to ensure that things would remain good and life isn't just playing pranks at him. Sometimes we need to take a break off, away from all forms of worries and see that we are fine and healthy, not just physically but also mentally, as worries does some kinds of inward damages. The increasing numbers of high blood pressure is alarming. People are running into debt as the day goes by, more are more people are spending higher than they are receiving and these are causes of concern, yet we would be adding more concerns to the already existing ones if we keep on worrying and not relax mind cleared. Life has a lot of sides, we can't deny both sides, and we very much can't escape both realities, however we need to channel our focus on one side, that influences our mood and character, which in turns influences our future results. Ever wonder why people who appears less worried often have less worries. Do you know that from long ago until date, you've worried about so many things, one time you worried about the house fee, another time its tuition fee, sometime it was electricity you were bothered about, another time it was health, but looking at today, you'll see that all or most of these are no longer of concern, its long been sorted out but worries wasn't what sorted it out. That tells us that what we face today would be sorted out soon, if not now but soon and our worries won't be the cure to it, worry doesn't solve it if the worry doesn't get you up to solution. What we need is solutions, if there is an issue then its solution. All that tension and sadness and anger doesn't relive the situation a bit, it would still be if a solution isn't proffered, except if the expressions are a solution to the problem which sometimes could be, just imagine your kid coming to you and expresses her discomfort, it would move you to act, so sometimes an expression can be a solution truly, I guess the females are masters in this act, however it doesn't applies to all men neither does it apply to all situations, most time another more constructive solution would be needing. Relax and feel the world, get the full benefits of living, everyday try to see that we explore deeper into happiness, every thing has been made for our enjoyment, enjoy the one you can, responsibilities never ends, it never goes away, each day comes with new targets and things to spend on, we might as well be to serious to keep striving and be angry at those who relaxes and yet still doing fine. We mostly assume it's by being overly serious, oh yes it has its benefits, it pays to devote oneself to a particular course, but more than that see that you are happy, happiness does more to our job than the income would. I often don't like to scare people but the truth remains truth whelter it be hidden or not. We all need to eat well, dress up well, find happiness, we all NEED to, it's not up for debate, moreover this is all our working is meant to each. Everything man desires is segmented into fulfilling the needs of his heart, we would focus more on spending for that our heart craves for more than that which our head proposes. It are happier to spend money on the food we like rather than to a friend in need, because one makes us happy, the other is more of a burden. So if all these makes us happy, we should do that at intervals, so our hearts would be glad and your bodies healthier. Relax and feel life. Feel life feel alive, explore deeper to the sweetness of the world. The world needs us to see all of it, so relax from all those troubles today, plan for the solution and become less bothered. Act on the plan and see to it that you settle all troubles but in between be happy. You can be sad and be pressure that by the time it's all over and you should be relaxing the effects of the sleepless nights and worries kicks off and you're starting to pay yet another unwanted Bill's. Be careful y'all, life can be enjoyed, let's just focus more on happiness, all troubles would surely be over. I'm grateful for your engagements to my article today, you can subscribe for more magical and inspiring piece. Stay true and blessed.
Intimidation Are you intimidated currently, are you tired of the feeling, do you want to put an end to it? If yes then stay with me, I'll be sharing more light on how to stop this intimidation from continuing. No one likes the feeling of being intimidated, its limits us to few abilities, the instigation of fear is an infringement to our rights are humans, this are outrightly wrong. Intimidation from all levels are wrong and we must see to it that it's stopped. Someone who has been initimated for the longest time coming would have adapted to the habit of being shy, or being afraid to express himself as freely as he or she normally should. I'd suggest we start by attending to all forms of intimidation around us before we can deal with those very sensitive intimidation. For example a lady in a very rough neighborhood, always being intimidated by the rugged guys around, yet she works in a place where her boss also does the same, what does she do. One is more sensitive than the other, as she could easily do away with the guys on the area, but she doesn't want to lose her job so she's more careful at work. I'd suggest she firstly deals with the street guys then she can grow confidence to know that intimidation can end, then push forward to confront boss. By confront it doesn't applies only to fight or the use of force, there are other better ways of ending intimidation that doesn't spread tension. Firstly a good study of the predator is key. Understanding his or her nature would assist you in drafting the best possible solution to the situation. Some persons sadly would never back down after a peaceful appeal, some persons needs a dialogue, some persons need force, some persons need only to be threatened, while some others only need you to be friends with them, so different people with different response. In all we are set to put an end into intimidation. Another area of intimidation we don't talk about most times are the "Show Off" intimidation. Where someone is making you feel less because they got somethings more than you and they constantly rob it on your face. This kind of intimidation is bad cause it goes deeper than physical bruise, it hurts your emotions and if not taken lightly it can turn someone into a bad person. This kind of oppression can get someone seeking for revenge so bad that he or she wouldn't mind staining his or her hands trying to get the revenge done. However we should note this that this kind of intimidation can be easily stoped, or let me say less cared about. Indeed it can easily be stopped cause it's all on you, it's all a mind game, moreover you can't meet the person to tell him or her to stop oppressing you with what they have, in fact you don't want them to know you're angry cause it'll give them the victory already. More reason why you can see someone just walk out of the room and the other person who has been acting tough throughout the conversation breaks down to tears. Obviously has been enduring the hurt, possibly acting up with smiles to make the oppressors feel like it's not getting to them, but as soon as they feel safe they let it all out either with curses or tears., we don't like any forms of intimidation. So it's all on us to correct, some oppression we can deal with, just by making up our minds to not care about it, making it matter less in our minds, for example your ex going on to date someone else and you're seeing their updates on how the relationship is going smooth, much better than it was while they were with you, what can you do then, nothing, unless you're capable of spoiling their happiness the best you can do is hope you would get better and watch. Its painful right, so why not stop keeping tab on them and get busy with more important stuffs, not easy at first I know but over time you can care less for them for real. The world should be actively against all forms of oppression, and all sectors should not tolerate it, everyone should enjoy the privacy of expressing their full potential and abilities without the fear of someone else tormenting them. Schools should fight hard against bully cause I feel that's the root cause If not the home, boys who were once Bullies or were bullied and nothing happened to make them see wrong in the act could actually grow up to keep bullying, they went free and enjoyed tormenting, so they would like to continue, only this time they would be intimidating on another level on a different scale, maybe as an horrible boss, wicked neighbor or even abusive patner. We can do better, to shun intimidation, anywhere you see it even when it's not done against you, still shun it, speak out and educate people on the need to stop it. Everyone is equal under the law, everyone is subject to the law that's the best way to maintain law and order in a country, so including the president and the army general, they all must abide under the law, so they no one feels they can intimidate another and go free, its wrong and policies should be implemented to stop it. People have so much to offer to this world but one of the greatest hindrance has been fear, one of the ways to fight against fear is to build a society free from intimidation, at least to the minimum level possible. Keep spreading peace and love, live life to the fullest. Thanks for reading through this article, God bless you all.
See The World We've Created For Ourselves Its interesting how well we have tried to transform the world that was handed into our care, look around and see the world we've made for ourselves. Indeed specular, we indeed are super creation, we are creativity personified. Not just our immediate world alone but our lives too, look around you and how your life is presently and see the life you've made for yourself, truly remarkable right. Although to some not so proud, to others they aren't proud at all while some are proud and grateful. All these doesn't change the fact that the world around and about us are a function of our creativity, yes other factors plays but the greater factor is our ability and willingness. The society is never and has never been viod of this two angle "the good and the bad" you can further differentiate them into 'ugly and beautiful ", "rich and the poor", "happy and the sad " we can never not see this two aspect be existent in life generally. And experiences has shown that though one may currently be on one side of the fence, there is every tendency that with the right actions and motives one could move out into another aspect of the fence. All with the right push and determination, one is bound to easily jump out and into a greater phase of life. Its more on planning I guess, what and how we want it to be, then fight against the odds, odds could be finances, government policies, lack of opportunities, social or physical limitations, in all a stubborn zeal would always pierce through. Someday we would look back and say yes I made it, looking back to the past and seeing the world you've made presently, your heart would be filled with so much joy., you'd be like "yes this is the world I've created, of course not as proud, not neglecting the handiwork and help of God all through the process, cause indeed it takes more than energy to make dreams come through, its more of Gods mercy. A better truly isn't promised to anyone, it really isn't meant for a specific group of people, while some persons might be there via luck, others would get there via hardwork and determination. Simple truth remains that no one is ever contended, we are humans with our ever insatiable needs, so while we feels someone should be happy with where he is and should have no bothers of life, it'll amaze you to see that such person is still troubled because he has quite a number of things he needs to get that we wants so bad. Its almost like no one is the highest, there is always someone we feel is doing better and we want to get there too. Just as moses was told by God, see and as far as you can see I've given unto you, same applies to life, as far as we can see for ourselves, we have the potentials to achieve, very few have gotten farther than they saw, they never could imagine being where they are today, comparing their ambitions to their present state, their ambitions is way low, how lucky are they, indeed that is a God factor, we all need that God factor for us to excel beyond what we can hope and think. Just as it is already written, eyes has not seen, neither has it comes to the heart of man what God has in store for us, that God factor is more of what we need. Then the question arise, do we only see Gods face and nothing else for us to get the world we deserve, well the sincere answer is YES, but I know what is going on in those minds, many people would result into laziness and more prayers, which is different from the plots of God, infact if one truly draws near to God you'll be directed to what to do. He doesn't support laziness as he himself isn't a lazy God, so work and plan, however seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things would be added unto you, all other thing is another word for the world we so earnestly crave for, so first seek God, then if God is first, that tells us there is a second, maybe third and fourth, that undoubtedly tells us there is a job to do, so work. Let's keep working for the world we want, let's keep hoping and praying it comes to pass. Indeed more than our imagination can come, let's not relent, let's do everything possible, life ends someday but we ain't ever going down without a fight, with each passing day we keep steady the hope and zeal to a better and happier future, where our families are experiencing better than we experienced, where our kids are starting off on a more solid foundation not having to be put through the stress we once endured at childhood, we work for the time where our resources can comfortably sort out our bills and we still have more than enough for our rest just as the bible rightly said in 2 Corinthians 9 verse 8. Never give up hope, the world we want may not be here yet but it can come and would by Gods mercy. However we have tried thus far, we remain resilient, never giving up, its amazing how far we've come, it's great how far we are going to. On God all things is possible. Thanks for your time, happy Sunday everyone.
Fighting For Happiness Oh yes it's a Magical world we live in, but this magics aren't all good and fun like how the circus shows us to be, it's still a world of good and evil, so good happens and bad too happens, well I need tell you who dominates, I'll take it you know about that already, so how then do we stay happy, how then do we ensure to constantly experience this magic of happiness, it's no one's duty to make you happy, although from time to time we elect our president, hoping his or her decision would make our world happier, I guess over the years we've learnt how not to trust in them. It's no one's responsibility to get you happy, absolutely no one, it's your job, waiting on someone to do it for you would surely lead to greater hurt, more reason why we should be happy and have learnt to be consciously happy before we meet and engage with someone, so we don't pressure that person into thinking he or she is doing somethings wrong when clearly, its we who should have done so for ourselves to ourselves. One major reason why we don't fight for happiness is cause we don't know the need to be happy. What are the advantages of happiness. Why do we need to maintain happiness through our lives, though its almost impossible to be happy all through, life is filled with experiences, some good and few bads, its would be easy to shine through the good, as the happiness flows effortlessly, however what do we do during the bad? Its really not easy to smile when it's bad, trying to smile when it's bad would be really annoying if you haven't learnt on why you need to smile, when we know why our happiness is important, then we can give it a try in the test of time. There is so much we can be when we are our best self, not necessarily saying laughing or joyful is your best self, our best self is from our state of mind, how ready and eventful is our mind at that point in time, but the time of unhappiness comes with a lot of clogs, they becloud our mind with overthinking, sadness, anger and the likes, and this hindrances would surely not help at that point in time, should an opportunity pass at such time, it would take God grace to notice it, Couple with strength to grasp it, unlike when you're already happy and open minded. Another major reason why we've got to be intentional about our happiness is owing to the fact that we can create a more comfortable world around us, being happy means talking happy, acting happy, playing happy all these would in turn be served to someone who would receive it and be happy too, and it goes round and round thereby creating a more convenient world, but in reverse case being unhappy means talking angry, acting bad and these would also be recieved and reciprocated, in turn making a non conducive environment. There are a million and one benefit to happiness, yes there are few benefits to unhappiness, if not God wouldn't make it in us, almost like saying anger is all bad, if we don't get angry at times we can never stop some wrong from reoccurring, same with unhappiness which I feel is the generic name for anger and sadness. Staying happy is beneficial, even health wise, haven't you seen where you start to glow and it's nothing other than your joy from within, that constant smile works on your Expression thereby making you more attractive, even the heart race better 😁. Its magical, happiness is magical, unfortunately so is unhappiness, you would be amazed to see the things you can do when you're happy likewise when you're sad, you wouldn't believe it is the same calm and reserved you doing all that, it's like entering an avatar state or in chemistry it's like entering an excited state. That's why we also need to be careful at both ends. Happiness is key, people say its free, however we have to go for it, do what makes you happy and stay happy. Happiness is free, True love is free, notice how I used true, cause some love can be bought but true love is free, maybe I'll write on that soon. All good things basically has been given freely to us from God, however if we can go get it, it would seem as though those who has it did their through crooked means, meanwhile it's free all along, a man has to approach his woman, if not she remains waiting or maybe taken. Same with happiness, do what makes you happy, stay conscious of the mind state and be happy. Happiness is one key to staying valuable in this magical world of ours.
Few Funny Reasons People Dislike You You'll be amazed to know the silly reasons why someone won't be fond of you. Ever walked into a place and there's somebody there giving you attitude, though I should admit that is more rampant among females than it is in males. You begin to hear words like "from the first day I saw her my heart couldn't just accept her", "don't know why but he/she's a bad person. Been amazed at how people look to justify their actions when clearly it's a wrong deed. There is no reason to dislike someone who hasn't offended you, even those who gets offended should look forward to forgiveness, and those who weren't offended should grow up. I feel it's absurd, but its very normal and more and more people keep doing this, there should be a thoughtful reason behind your actions, we shouldn't be to full of ourselves to feel we can hate and dislike another, why go through such extent with someone who innocently is living his own life. Shortly I'll be sharing few reasons I've either heard of experienced as few of the reasons why people dislike another. With each reasons we see how unnecessary it is to dislike someone, disliking someone without justful cause. Let's talk on some reasons. # Because Their Freind or Family Dislike You. In high school and colleges, where people work in cliques, you're prone to find this rampant there, you've had a fall out with someone and so all his or her friends are automatically enemies with all your friends, isn't that insane, they act as though life begins and ends in the school., do they forget that years later someone among those people hated would be of help or would be needing help, imagine you both not being able to assist each other because of some high school childishness. Let those who have issues settle their issues, you remain neutral cause you care more about your future and you understand the essence of association and how everyone is a potential aid for tomorrow. Its harder in homes however, cause if it were your parents or siblings disliking someone you may have no choice but to disengage from that person, you really don't want to go against family, its not a beautiful experience, however let your conscience remain pure, you don't need to hate and withdraw from someone depending on how severe the dislike is and who in the home is really having the issue, best you can limit the talks and pleasantries but still have nothing against such person, because you may not be aware when they settle their differences, but there you are still shutting the door behind an innocent person. # Cause You Appear As A Potential Threat On this I can relate a little, Envy is a normal feeling, only that with the right mind work we can feel much better and secured. We would get tired of feeling bad as soon as someone walks into the room or gets employed into same place, office or territory that you once dominated cause the person seems like a threat to you. For example a more good looking guy can be employed to a firm and there we are feeling like he would take away all attention, even if he does it isn't enough reason to feel bad about it and not do you. When we feel no hate we can still be happy and be ourselves and our true self is magical enough to attract. # Look Like Someone Who Did Bad Resemblances is one thing we can not undo, no one can say he made his face to be the way it is, for me to look like someone is not my fault and I can't be held responsible to the other person's carelessness, thereby it is wrong to stereotype everyone who has that kind of face or behavior pattern or even body built as the same. Anyone could remind you of someone else, it doesn't mean they would act like that person. People are different, even identical twins may not have same pattern. So when you're hurt by someone, that's dislike or aggression shouldn't be transferred to a lookalike. # Having Nothing To Offer I guess Suitors are prone to this category, when looking to get a girl and her parents suddenly dislikes the suitor cause he is not financially as wealthy as they hope for their daughter. Even the society do this a lot too, giving preferential treatment to the rich and the broke is treated as scrap, all these are nonsense, which I had a better word to use but I don't, nonsense it is. Life has thought us never to write anybody off, we understand the place of money being necessary, you can choose to decline but not to the extent of hate. Never dislike anyone cause you feel he or she has nothing to offer now, when they do you'll become an hypocrite when you suddenly grow fond of them. I guess it's good to self reflect at times, especially when someone gets you into a sudden mood of dislike, search deeper within and if peradventure its nothing but insecurities, dislike base on friendship cliques, dislike base on striking resemblances, dislike base on financial reasons, then we can do better than that, come off it and make peace, be of good cheer, we don't need to be friends but we don't need to dislike neither. These are a few of the funny reasons someone can dislike you for. Which have you experienced. Thanks. Love you all. ✌
That Magical World Have you been searching for the magical world, something more like Harry Potter, where wishes come true, a world were there are no limits to what can be done and archived, all things are possible, if you can think it then you can do that, that kind of world. Shortly I'll be sharing more about that magical world, how we can find it, where it is and all that can be found in it, exciting right. You'll be amazed at how easy it is to get into the magical world and start enjoying the life of no limits no restrictions, everything possible, everything can be done. Hi guys, thanks for having me here, I'm not a magician neither I'm a fetish, I'm what you call a regular guy, a normal guy writing however that's how you describe me, but I don't see myself that way and I guess that's where the problem lies, I see myself as magical living in a magical world, and believe me I've met a lot of magical beings than I have met a normal being. Strange right? Magic is an amazement, doing something extraordinary, something that can be done ordinarily, doing it and amazing the normal people around. Yeah that means I've met a lot of magicians, probably you are too. I mean it when I say I've met with a lot of magicians this far, people who keep amazing me, and just the same way there are some tricks some magicians can't pull off, they too can do it all, yet the few they can do has earned them the right to be tagged as a magical being. How do you firstly explain someone depositing most of the things he or she has into another, to an extent that when this other person is gone his own way people could still identify that person who has initially depositing a trait in him. Without no scientific machine, without no voodoo, nothing of that such yet here goes someone who is exhibiting your traits, isn't that magical. With that above point you should be able to imagine a lot of magicians you have around you, for most their parents are true magicians, however some parents are not magicians to their kids. It's one of the greatest magical experiences, to replicate yourself into another person. No one truly wins and tagged as successful when he or she can't fully replicate him or herself into somebody else, that selfish act can be found in ordinary people and that's why they stay normal and ordinary with creating an amazement the world can talk about. We all have gifts and great forces it would be awesome to build it in someone too. Not all magicians are born with a super power you must agree with me. Not everyone Is Merlin or Harry Potter, in reality it has been learnt or earned but a lot of people. Some magical amazement we see are only tricks we are ignorant of. The doer knows what he did and why it happened the way it did cause he had strategically planned it out, however the crowd doesn't know so they are amazed. Similarly a lot of people earn and learn so much that they come up with mindblowing innovations. The so called magicians have done little or nothing for the world to earn and grow from, but some individuals have invented a lot that the world currently revenue from. One of the fathering inventions that has lead to other inventions is undoubtedly the invention of electricity. From light has a lot been birthed from, a machines of every kind shape and sizes works on electricity, all household appliances to phones and all that makes the phone resources, all and almost everything feeding off electricity, yet there was a time this electricity was not yet known, someone someday magically introduced to the world. If we are sincere this is one of the best magic of all times, yet a normal guy did it, so I ask, who then is a magician. He clearly stands out. You my friend is also magical, have you seen the way and manner you reason, isn't that amazing, look at your dream and aspirations, sometimes you're scared of what you can do and you know the world would be amazed, you just know cause you also have been amazed. There are no secluded magicians somewhere, yet not everyone is a magician, those who choose not to act or take actions towards their ambitions, those who are too mediocre can never be called magicians until there is a significant change. Magic is simply you amazing your world and that you can do, you probably haven't done it yet. We see that the said magical world isn't farfetched, its here with us, we already are in the theater and the world is our audience, what we do determines the response we would get. Our world encourages magic, so let's not be afraid to replicate ourselves on others, when your lifestyle is healthy and nice then you be thinking of helping someone else's build such healthy lifestyle. Someone needs to pick up from where you stopped, it's never really completed if it isn't complete. The world needs you to complete things so it can continuously experience inceease, but as human we are limited by so many things so mentoring someone is the safest way to getting the magic finish. It's a magical world, we are all magicians.