Disturbed
The older you feel, the more often you feel upset. It feels like your days are full of grumpy things. Mood ups and downs, the "adult advice" you receive actually makes you even more confused about what you should do.
The thing you have to understand is that throughout your life you will always be faced with choices. Whether it's about personal life, family, career, friendship or finances. The many things you have to think about and decide on will make you vulnerable from feeling upset, but don't worry because this is something that is normal.
Stop worrying and worrying about what other people think of us, especially until we stop doing the things we love. You are the person who understands you the most, while other people will have a million ways to judge you by their opinion. Do what you think is good and continue your business as long as it doesn't harm others.
All humans in this world must have experienced failure and they keep trying from the beginning. Failure is the best experience and teacher you can get in this life. Failure will make you more mature and more introspective with life choices in the future. Failure is something that is absolute and cannot be avoided. You never know if you will fail or not until you try, right?
Because you are afraid to fail and afraid to try, you end up stuck in your comfort zone. Staying in your comfort zone for a long time will dull your spirits and make you lose your passion in life. At this point usually a sense of confusion will arise. Intend yourself to further develop and choose activities that can elevate you to your new goals.
You are overthinking something that is not necessarily happening. In the end you confuse yourself. Live for today and don't worry about the future that hasn't happened yet. Find the reason why you are overthinking and write it down in your notebook. This can help to map out the things you are thinking and worrying about. Reread your writing and cross out the things that are not really important to think about.
The environment where you are active and social does not give you positive motivation that can help you be more enthusiastic. Your friends or friends do not provide support when you are feeling down or make you feel even more upset.
Good friendship relationships are mutually beneficial and mutually building each other. Choosing the wrong friendship can lead you astray, being good at choosing friends will contribute to your success in the future. You certainly want to have friends who help you climb your steps to success and celebrate success together?
It's okay to dream high, but you have to be realistic. Be realistic about what you aspire to and be realistic with the effort you put in. When you are realistic, you have prepared yourself for some conditions that may not be comfortable for you. That way, you avoid feeling confused.
You can prevent excessive confusion and avoid it as long as you can think positively and believe that there will always be a rainbow after a rainstorm. Prolonged anxiety and moodiness are not good for the process of pursuing your dreams. Come on, cheer up.
