Humans actually face problems with themselves. For example, when you are sad. What is the measure of the truth that the sadness that humans experience is the sadness that deserves to be felt? Those are the perceptions, feelings, and nuances of the soul that humans play all the time. Watch the little ones. It was so easy for him to be happy. Why is that?

In fact, one important thing is happening on this earth, namely happiness is not easy to feel when humans increase "know", not increase "understand", because knowing and understanding are very different levels. Knowing and knowing more is a condition that makes people less happy. On the other hand, the condition of the soul that understands and understands more and more can maintain happiness. How come?

Let's look for further answers through a question. Does a four-year-old child know what debt is? Can he feel tormented when he finds out that his parents are in debt? This only becomes meaningful and becomes a suffering for him when the child begins to grow up. As children get older, their “know” repertoire gets fuller. He just found out that the debt could make him and his family uncomfortable.

This may sound very silly to you, but it's the truth. Try this thing out! When you want to be angry, try to hold it for a moment, go to the bathroom to brush your teeth. Then check how you feel? You may be surprised to find yourself calmer than before. What calms you down isn't the toothpaste, it's that you've got your feelings under control, without following your previous anger and seeming like you know what to do.

Therefore, make peace with yourself as best you can, because outside problems never exist. New problems will become problems when we have problems with our own feelings. Even though today you are slapped by people, as long as you can be sincere and understand then the pain doesn't need to exist. If that smack has made you irritated and angry, then this is a problem.

Another illustration, if you show a knife to a baby, does he immediately get scared and cry? No, right? Because, the more people know, the more they feel that their sense of security is also getting threatened. So, you have to remember carefully. The more you know, the more you must understand. The reason is, if you know but don't understand, it will keep you trapped in pain that is actually cliché.

So, how do you become an understanding self? And how to create a life of understanding that can foster a calm and peaceful heart, feeling, and mind? Yeah, maybe the power is always there when you can be completely sincere about the aspects of the soul and feelings at the same time is the way to achieve that.