Bitterness in the World of Marriage, What Causes It?

I brought up the theme of bitterness in a family.

Some of my experiences around family, friends and neighbors were as a girl.

Getting married does not mean solving one problem. Singles problem. Getting married we must prepare ourselves to face various problems.

Marriage bonds with sacred promises in front of priests or leaders. The promise is written to live in joy and in sorrow. We must uphold that promise as a solid foundation for building a harmonious family.

Two become one. It's not easy. Different characters, hobbies, attitudes can become a complete unity. The thing we have to realize that our partner is ourselves.

So stop hurting yourself. Always cultivate love and love so that the integrity of the household remains lasting and harmonious.

Some of the family bitterness that always afflicts the world of marriage include:

1. Selfishness

Don't want to give in and feel right. Feeling as the head of the family must be respected and upheld.

I think this kind of thinking can also be done, but we also have to respect and appreciate our partners first, then a sense of reciprocity arises. There is a sense of reluctance. I often encounter the head of the household feels he is the king, so that his spouse is treated arbitrarily.

2. Lack of respect for the partner

When married we are blessed with equal positions, not one standing one more sitting. Which means that our position in the family is the same level.

Husband and wife have the same rights. Sometimes there are husbands who feel great because they are looking for the needs of the family. So it must be served like a king, sorry the wife said as a servant, not a partner. Indeed, as wives we are obliged to serve the husband, but the husband should not go too far.

A happy wife is the husband's sustenance. Husband's success is encouragement and his beloved wife. The wife is a soul mate. A place for complaining, a place to share stories. A harmonious family is the dream of all families. How can we always be in harmony and peace

It depends on each of us.

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