Our journey into this world is unbelievable. It may be full of ups and downs. It has so many lessons for us to learn. It helps us understand other people. The various experiences we may encounter gives us the meaning of life. Honesty, trust, and loyalty are just a few that we may value. And it teaches us many things.
Life has taught me that you can't control someone's loyalty. No matter how good you are to them, doesn't mean that they will treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, doesn't mean they will value you the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the people you can trust the least.
It is heartbreaking though. When people you love the most are the ones who hurt you the most. When you lose respect for someone that you love, it becomes hard for us to trust that person again. But then, it is said that you can forgive, but can not forget the wrong things he or she has done to you.
Sad but true. This truly makes it extreme hard to let your guards down to even feel like you can trust them ever again. I, for instance, had been through a lot of pain. And it has taken me a long time to figure out why this has happened. But then, let us choose to move on and be very careful about whom we can trust again.
This is true indeed. But the choice is always us to make. Will we stay in being in pain or will we accept it and move on. I myself was hurt and that might be the reason I always have a self reservation in terms of loving someone or even being friends with someone.