Peace and happiness
Just as love and affection have different meanings, peace and happiness are also different things.
Peace; While it can be expressed with concepts such as serenity and taste, which are sought facts of life, happiness is very different from it. Neither peace nor happiness gives guarantees for one another.
People who say that they can be happy with small things experience an inner peace rather than happiness. true happiness; It is generally a result of relationships in which pain is rampant, ordeal, suffering, grief and longing are experienced at the most extreme points. It is not easily obtained... The price is heavy.
And not every body, not every heart can handle this burden.
First, it requires not contenting with less and then having the courage to sail towards the mysterious and dangerous unknowns.
As in many things, this process, which starts with wanting, develops when people realize that they are human. Meanings are attached to things, places and events by the capacity to understand or comprehend.
With a destiny that can be called the grace of Mevla's servant, a person meets his soul mate who was brought before him. His heart is fluttering now.
Meanings are loaded with the capacity to understand or comprehend, things, places and events... And everything is given a sanctity.
A song listened to together, the first meal eaten together determine the details of the next days, as well as immortal loves, unforgettable memories for life.
It also creates movie frames. This lifestyle is a world without a reason and without a reason.
The one who loves, just loves... We are sexy, of course, loves in spite of everything...
After a while, the other begins to feel the pain of one. If he is sad, the other is also sad. It is shared in joy along with sorrow. And whoever needs comfort seeks it in the other...
There are many times when he cannot find what he is looking for. "Why does he not understand me?"; The question often comes up...
Then the lover realizes that his duty is not to make himself happy, but to make his loved one happy.
He begins to exhibit such sincere behaviors that the person who loves, unexpectedly, unexpectedly being in unexpected places, unexpected calls...
He tries to remember the special days he can't even remember and to do something special.
But he either gets scolding from his loved ones at such times, or he sees indifference in his style. This time he starts to curse himself.
There are days when his veins and muscles become stiff from nerves. Worse seizures await the lover's heart than Sara's. If he wants to shout, he can't make a sound, when he wants to cry, he can't cry...
The question "What am I doing wrong?" helps him learn that some things need time to progress. He sees that he has no choice but to accept it as it is and be patient.
Happiness; It is like a good deed without expecting anything in return. It is wanting the happiness of the loved one, whether he has it or not, and making efforts in that direction.