In the moment of awakening, the feelings tell the owner that he is walking with scattered steps, and that the path he takes in floundering is not the desired path. This article is aimed at your sentiments and feelings, flirting with your feelings and aspirations.
Life without a goal is meaningless and worthless, and given the importance of goals in the life of every human being, I will offer you an explanation of the reasons that prevent people from setting their goals and some methods that help to define goals.
Why do people not set their goals in life?
There are five reasons why people refrain from setting their goals, among these reasons:
1- Fear:
Fear of the future, fear of the unknown, fear of repetition of painful experiences, fear of society's reaction, and fear of failure are all considered a major reason why people refrain from setting their goals in life.
2- A confused view of oneself:
The feeling of inferiority and the inability to achieve success and the belief that success is for the intelligent and genius drives the person to refrain from setting goals, so he is certain that no matter what he tries, he will not be able to achieve any achievement.
3- Postponement and procrastination:
Some people see that life is long and there is plenty of time to achieve goals, so they postpone setting their goals, so age and time pass quickly without achieving any goal or achievement in their lives.
4- Lack of belief in the importance of goals:
There are those who think that the process of writing goals is a waste of time, so you see them working randomly without planning, and therefore they are unable to achieve any goal in their lives.
5- Not knowing:
Some people want to set goals for them, but they lack the cognitive ammunition, and they do not make any effort to acquire this ammunition, and therefore they refrain from setting goals for them.
At some point in time you feel that your life is going in a direction other than you want .. you look at the previous years of your life and do not feel that you have done everything you aspired to in it .. you look at what is coming and pray that God gives you the ability, energy and strength to do everything in it. She couldn't do it. And it accomplishes much, much more.
Pillars of success
There are five important pillars to help you achieve success in your life:
1- The Spiritual Pillar:
This pillar includes the relationship with God Almighty. It is necessary for a person to strive to develop the spiritual side in his life in order to be able to achieve his goals in this life. Faith provides us with great energy to overcome difficulties and limitations.
2- Personal corner:
It includes family, personal relationships, education, entertainment, travel, vacations, and everyone needs to develop this pillar, as it helps greatly in setting goals and achieving success and progress.
3- Professional pillar:
Includes professional life, it is necessary to develop the professional side through learning, training and undergoing intensive courses, so only that anyone will be able to achieve career success.
4- Physical element:
It includes financial stability, the level of income, investments and projects that can be undertaken. This pillar is very important and must be developed as it guarantees life in permanent stability.
5- Health Corner:
And it includes physical health, it is important for every person to set a health goal that he strives for, for example, how do I change my health habits, how do I stick to a healthy diet, what is the required weight, and how much time should I spend on exercise.
And finally ..
I offer you many tips that help in arranging the papers of daily life, and phrases that give a load of hope, a boost of optimism, of self-confidence and life.
"Watch your thoughts, my friend, for they are the ones that create your future. Repellent to negative thoughts that surround every idea that tries to demean you or stale your thinking or diminish your capabilities."
"Live every moment as if it is the last moment in your life, live with your love for God Almighty, live by imitating the morals of the Messenger, peace be upon him, live with hope, live with struggle, live with patience, live with love, and appreciate the value of life."
"What is the value of a target that is not motivated by a strong burning desire? A strong desire is the oxygen that the targets breathe in order to survive on the ground."