Wealth and happiness are seen as the main source of comfort and peace in human life. We can even say that wealth creates happiness, that happiness is strengthened by the love of wealth and that it is a gift from God to mankind.
But is this the unanimous rule that happiness is hidden in money? No, I don't think so. If this were true then all the rich people in the world would be happy.
As people say, money is life. Whoever has money, the world is in his hands. If you have money you will be popular in your society. Everyone wants to be close to you - since money is the most useful thing in the world. Everything you need will be available to you, a beautiful wife as a life partner, a luxurious house to live in and an eye-catching car and much more you will get through money.
But life is not a flower bed. Money cannot be the object of salvation in every step of life. Since it is man-made. So if the power of man is limited, then the power of his creation will also be limited. That is why we see that even the rich have a hard time in many cases.
Busyness has become an epidemic for the wealthy. Too many promises are disrupting their normal lives. They do not have time to take care of their families while maintaining social contact. The youngest in the family, those who need the most care are the ones who suffer the most. Undoubtedly, among their children, we see more crime tendencies only due to lack of parental rule and excessive independence.
Becoming rebellious for no reason
That is enough to predict the suffering and unrest of the rich. So we see clearly that it is one thing to be rich and another thing to live happily ever after. In order to live a happy life, you must have contentment in your heart. A person does not have to be a millionaire to be happy, but he will get a taste of real happiness only when he is satisfied with what he gets.
A recent survey found that Forbes' 400 richest people and East African Masai herders are equally happy!
Marital happiness
Love is another thing that people can't buy with money. If we say that money complements love, in the sense that it increases mutual trust, then we are at least somewhat correct. Because if there is enough money behind love to support it, then there is some relief. But if we mean that money is an essential element in love, then love will not grow without it, but in this case our guess is wrong.
We live in a society where women have full freedom to choose the life partner of their choice, where the first demand of most women will be an affectionate love. Naturally women tend to be a little more caring as a result of their tender hearts, and so they bow down to affectionate love. Women usually face a little difficult decision making. But love is first and foremost in their needs.
It is true, of course, that some women are short on money, considering money as the first criterion for marriage. But it will always be taken as an exception. And we all know that in the midst of so much wealth and aristocracy, the fate of these marriages is usually a terrible amount of hardship and misery.
How?
All in all, I believe that in order to understand the relationship between money and happiness, we need to understand the role of wealth in our lives and how it should be spent. Because psychologists are beginning to realize that a possible cause of the plight of rich people depends on how they spend their resources.
The relationship between happiness and wealth explains that while wealth does not help people to be happy, happiness does help people to acquire wealth.
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We should give equal value to both wealth and happiness. If our wealth is not providing us happiness , then this wealth is useless for us.