I heard this line before in one anime character that says, "Being alone is more painful than getting hurt." Some of you might agree, but some might also oppose. For me, being alone will only get painful if you are lonely.
Introvert people like to be alone than to socialize. They love to feel the peaceful environment, and they are more productive when they are on their own. However, can a person live without associating themselves with others? How does being alone brings happiness?
There is this famous line that says, "No man is an island." It means that no person can live by themselves and no one is living just for themself.
I remembered this one question in my worksheet before about "How do other people affect our life?" Now, I want to share with you my answer.
A person becomes part of someone's life because of the connection and bond that they shared. A person's life will never be complete without the influence of other people. We tend to adopt what we learned from other people and apply them in our life unconsciously. We develop ourselves by socializing and learning the things that are new to us. They bring a significant impact on our personality and behavior. Our mental and social development are affected by the people that we associate ourself in our daily life. It means that without them, we wouldn't be the person we are right now.
Now, how do introverts develop themselves when they barely socialized? Just like the line I said in the first sentence, "Being alone is more painful than getting hurt," however, being alone will only get painful if you are lonely. Introvert people feel the same way. They enjoy the essence of being alone, but they are not lonely. It is how they want to handle their life, and we can all agree that we all have different ways of leading ourselves.
Introverts develop themselves by merely observing their surroundings. They acquire knowledge and experience through reading and watching. They are quiet sometimes, but they are paying attention to what's happening around them.
We could say that introverts have a strong mentality and are independent. They know how to handle things on their own and think logically. Upon deciding, they base on the expected result and the consequences it may bring.
You may think that introverts are a snob. However, since they are usually by themselves, some don't know how to approach other people because they are socially awkward. They are not very friendly at first, but when you get to know them, you'll see that they are sweet and gentle. Introverts are humble and kind. They could be shy and funny at the same time.
They may not seem like it, but introverts are emotional. They are soft and fragile that simple matter can affect them easily. They are not very expressive, so you wouldn't know what they are thinking.
Introverts love music. They love to listen to songs that have a strong sense of emotion with which they can relate.
There are many things that introverts like to do. Being an introvert is typical. Introverts should not be treated differently from other people because that is how they live their lives, which is their happiness.