July 8, 2021

Remember " You don't need to be envious of others ' progress or success. Take your dreams slowly. You've come a long way, so don't waste the time and effort you put into it. "

WHY we don't  want to be left behind?

WHY do we always compete with other people on something that we shouldn't be?

WHY do we look at everything in life as a contest and we have to be at the top?

WHY we don't want to be at the back of other people, unless there's something that might harm us if we're in the front?

WHY do we always think about the things they have and we don’t have and we’ve missed? 

WHY do we always think about what we have that they don’t have?

DON'T WE? SHOULD WE?

Somehow, not letting yourself to be left behind is good. When we get left behind, we always think that it's because we lack something. We lack the efforts we put on that thing. So we try to learn from our mistakes, and become more conscious of every situation. Another positive side of not letting yourself be left behind is that you pay attention to people who have things that you want. Which could become your good model and will urge you to do the same next time. It may help you have what you want. Same goes whenever we don't want to be left behind by the love of our life. Yess it's good, as long as you can make it without harming yourself and other people.

On the other hand, it's negative side is that you don't want to be left behind because you envy them for being at the top or in front of you. And envy is a negative emotion that might cause harm to yourself and to other people. 

LIFE is a CAREER. A career? Yes, it is!

But it seems that you have forgotten that we have our own road to walk and run. We also have our own clocks to watch. You can rest anytime and you can continue again anytime you want. It is okay if that's what you want, because you are the one that holds your time. Don't rush things. You have no other opponent. 

You don’t have to rush your process. You just have to trust the process, do your best and believe in yourself. It's okay if there are things you don't have yet - what's more important is that you are still trying to reach your dream. You can have it in no time, very soon. 

If you still have the wound on your past experiences.

If your heart is still healing. 

If you're still looking for the missing piece of your being.

If your flow isn't straightforward and fast.

If there are plans that aren't going well

Remember that " It's okay to make mistakes and start all over again. You are not late. I repeat, you are not late. You will never be late. In fact, you don't have to hurry. It's okay if you stop for a moment.

In the meantime, Learn from your mistakes then think of what will be your next step on your next try. Learn to be grateful wherever you are whatever the blessings you receive. 

Closing Thought

We just need to wait for our turn. Now let's just have  fun in the clouds while flying towards our dream. It doesn't really matter if you feel that you are late, if you feel you are behind with other people. Don't be dictated by how far other people have reached. If you think that You're still far from your dream, think also that you've come this far also. No turning back.

Again trust the process. Learn and  develop your personality. You can have the destination you are hoping for very soon.!

-LEJAY28

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