Heartbreak

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We humans tend to have heartbreak when we depart or separate ourselves from someone we truly love and care about. Sometimes it might be just hard for us to get it over with and start a new relationship. We humans are sometimes the cause of heartbreaks which can occur in bfs and gfs or the parents and children,or between friends and sometimes with their pet;maybe it died.

We have some factors which tends to be part of what causes heartbreak and I am going to talk about it in a brief manner;

Jealousy

This is the first factor I will mention because this is what causes most heartbreaks. Being jealous in the way that you don't want anybody to either come close to your gf or bf or anybody you have a relationship with, and you later end up blaming the opposite sex which can lead to arguments and eventually leads to separation which causes heartbreak in the two opposite genders heart.

Envy

This is also a common source of heartbreaks. When you have a close person to you and both of you are progressing without any stop,whereas there are some people who will be like are they the only ones, and they wouldn't want you to progress for who you are but rather them. If they eventually try to get a fight between this close people,they will heed to what they say eventually break up with their close ones.

Impatience

This is also another factor which is generally common. When a spouse is not patient for the other spouse,there will surely be heartbreak. Assuming the husband's had always been a rich man and he got demoted in his place of work and he couldn't provide like before to his wife,his wife will surely think that the husband is giving another woman outside like the husband is fornicating which can lead to arguments and eventually broken homes.

Family

Our family too can also be a factor to us not having a perfect relationship with our loved ones and people we care about. Sometimes they will just tell and talk to you one day that this person doesn't suits you and you must heed to them which you must surely obey and if you discuss it with ur spouse she might take it seriously and separate herself from you at that moment which you will be surprised an which will eventually lead to heartbreak.

What I am trying to say is that we are sometimes the cause of our own problems and which we blame others for. We might be at fault and sometimes not,but we should always try and listen to other people's opinions and reason things together to bring out the best in yourselves and truly understand each other's feeling.

Heartbreak is not about humans only,it does happen to animals too when they lose their young ones they are sometimes agressive for that main time and later on change for the better. Heartbreak isn't a small thing to handle except for people with strong minds and people that can bare pain.

I haven't experienced heartbreak before except for my grandpa's death which pained me till today.My grandfather was a great man when he was still alive,he does not support the wrong people and do bad deeds but rather curb them in a way he knew he could. To cut the long story short,before he died on that particular day he prayed for me that same day maybe knowing that he will surely die he also prayed for the remaining family. We were later called that same evening that he was dead,I was surely heartbroken since I was a kid but I knew how painful it was to loose a person really close to you.

We all encounter different kinds of heartbreaks but I know that God knows what he is doing and he surely sees everything through. We that have heartbreak today will surely have a mended heart some day and which we will all be happy. Remember!

Thanks for reading!

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