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Five best ways to punish a woman if you don't want to beat or abuse her physically

Lawrenceson 29 July 1:15 PM

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But we leave in a generation where people seek for remedies to problems without first finding out the root cause. People want to judge the consequences of an action but nobody cares to discuss the root.

Very often, men are beaten, ridiculed, arrested and even killed for abusing their wives physically. But no one care to know what the wife has done.

Disclaimer - This article is not in anyway to promote violence in marital homes but to give alternatives to unavoidable circumstances that results from physical abuse.

You may ask, where then is forgiveness? It is not found where there is constant offence. Forgiveness is completed by the offender, when he/she changes from his bad attitude in order to let peace reign.But hanging over a bad attitude and expecting to be taken as your are is a process of emotional murder. The person who forgives is being fooled to believing that he can't help remedy the situation.

Dear men, the society will not leave you if they see you abusing your wife, nobody cares what she did, all they care for is 'for no reason shall you raise your filthy fists against a woman'. So these are the five best ways to discipline your lady without attracting public judgement to your family.

Note that these measures are to be applied after you must have tried several different ways to caution her but all to no avail.

No. 1 - Keep late nights

A situation that has no solution is yet to be born. After you must have asked her to change her bad characters in many loving ways, yet she sees good reasons to remain in them, then try this.

When you are done from work, find a friend's place where you can stay and be comfortable, do not go home until it's late at night, when she must have been tired and retired to bed.

Do not keep late nights in the bar, the devil may be there waiting for you. Discuss your plan with a trusted friend, let him know you are trying to caution your wife. He will help you with other sub and reasonable plans while in his house.

If your woman is not jealous enough to stop anything that led to your late nights, then she has the heart of a rod. Try the second way.

No. 2 - Give her a cold shoulder

It's not every woman that can survive being ignored by the man they share a house with. Some women feel hurt deeply when she see that you are deliberately ignoring her.

Let her keep her good morning whenever she wakes up, let her keep her thank sir when she's done eating, let her keep her gists when she sees you. Every other communication should be halted.

Watch your television, mind your business, make your calls and laugh out so loud, sing and whistle around the house. But ignore every move she make to come close. If she ever insist, tell her to change or leave you to live your life.

If she is truly your wife, she would seek to know what she has done and where she went wrong. Remind her that it's the same bad attitude she has refused to give up on. If the cold shoulder continues, she definitely must come back begging.

No. 3 - Stop eating her food

This may not be easy for some men, but it very very potent. When she serves you her supposed delicacy, kindly ignore the table and the food, tell her you lost your appetite. If you repeat it for consecutive days, she will know you are rejecting her food.

When coming home, eat outside and buy some snacks that you maybe needing at night. Mind your room and your phone, but also know that in this situation, you have to also mind your emotions and control your urge.

This doesn't mean you won't be keeping money for meals, you are trying to make things better and not necessarily to worsen them. So you continue to provide for her while she eat and dine alone. When she realizes that she's alone in the house, she will come back with begging and pleading.

In all her pleas, make sure she promise to stop.

No. 4 - Deny her some bodily pleasures

One of the basic needs in marriage is emotional pleasure and satisfaction. If situations get so bad that your wife no longer listen to you, try this.

If you both share the same bed, then leave her side for her, if she won't allow you to sleep, go to the sitting room. Please, this measure should be taken with caution. Know the kind of person your wife is before you start with this no. 4. If she is an erotic addict, please don't try this, she may go out in search of it. Try the ones above but satisfy her on bed just for satisfaction sake.

No. 5 - Leave the house for her

If every other one fails, leave the house for her. Travel. Even if it's in your neighbor's house, leave the house for her.

Some women are quite incompetent to run a family. They cannot lift a finger to help issues when you are not there, so she wouldn't want to search and not find you. Again, some women who are strong and feminist-minded would even love to throw you out in the first place, so they won't bother you left. But in all, learn to stay away from your home, and gradually, you will be detached from her emotionally. This detachment will help you overcome her ill attitudes when she starts, it will help you forget so easily when you are hurt, it will also help you to move on when she finally breaks off.

Please before you embark on this journey, make sure to tell your wife that you may change because of her consistent bad attitude. This is to make her know that she is the one bringing out the stained colour out of you.