MISERY: illusion of the mind

When one's house roof makes its way to the sky, there it stands solely without any competition on the ground, and the owner feels his chest broader in the same proportion. He walks away from the house, and goes to a far distinct place to see how high is the roof in the sky? Also compares it with others. Doing so creates a sensation of a current of bliss flowing over the body. He never speaks words on the exposition of his inner feelings to anyone.

Changing the scenario, someone from the same place makes a house higher than his roof, or even a comparable to his now finds unease with the situation. There opens a door in two ways, either accept the presence, search excuses and go on own way or competition are being accepted. This is how the misery starts. From where does it gets poured upon?

From the above, one of the reasons is comparisons.

Comparison arises when there is a doubt about the ability of the people. One always tries to show that one is always obsessed with the top, fantastic, expensive quality and bigger in quantity than others. If he/she fails in comparison, choose another aspect where he can be at the top. Suppose, a man earning a lot of money, is questioned about the happiness in the family mentally and physically. If he gives time to family, can't earn much. So, people know the encountering subjects on which they pile up queries.

If one is poor, many will appear to show the way to richness. But for rich people do people show further? No, because he is richer than the rest. So, being rich in society imbues jealousy in others' minds whether they show it or not. And It is normal behaviour of human beings to be envious. This is the reason why one is always busy in comparison.

It is a common characteristic of humans to get the best things in life. At the first instance walking may desire for bike, after bike car, and for Land Rover cars and so one. There is no end to the desires.

Why does one desire the best? Because he wants to show that he possesses the best ones in his life. How best is determined? By comparison.

The root of comparison is the ability of the person.

what rages one's anger? The answer is simple just doubt in his or her ability. When some scholar is near, going near just make words that he may know books, but he doesn't have any life experiences? Will he accept the statement? No! He won't but in return we get his outpace dismantle look. Same way if we cross-question the capability of adults living in towns, " Town boys are weaker ones, they are more talkative than village boys?" With dissatisfaction town boys will go with the knowledge point of view, they may say we have a better system.

Therefore, when there arises a question on one's ability, to prove himself or herself is in the right direction starts to work hard. May reach the culmination, but that is the way of misery.

A degree holder person when he sees an undergraduate earning more than him or her, at first tries to make some excuses that he didn't choose to earn more than his friends but has understood the essence of the family. And he believes that he should have earned more than his less literate friends. This fact slowly turns into the temptation follows by desperation. This is how misery is borns within life.

Most people claim that comparison is the way to success. And for success, one needs to act. But in the present days, as we all are in the effect of the capitalist system everyone is driven by money and profit. With a profit-oriented mind, we are tempted to gain a higher height in every facet of life.

Temptation can't lead a person to satisfaction life so one can doubt that if a many is doing hard work and is satisfied with it, we can't claim it as misery. But, as being flown by temptation we are entangled with the more earning, getting the best in life and showing that one is number one in this world.

Therefore, whether, it be the comparison, Criss in ability, capability or temptation, all are driven by our mind to show pompous life to that world. The overall point is to show that we are born unique, topper than everyone, which is the main source of the misery

Thank you, ©Lawa1988