Some teachers train us through pain while others through love. Yet they all have the same value for our inner growth.
Every person mirrors some aspects of you so that you can see them and you can either change or embody them. Depending on whether you like the reflection you see.
It’s good to observe what kinds of feelings other people invoke in us because these are the lessons we need to understand.
Some people teach us to leave and say no.
Sometimes the lessons that other teach us is to value and honor ourselves by leaving them. Despite to what I used to believe a decade ago, we don’t need to stay in relationships that aren’t the right for us.
By staying longer, we don’t make relationship work better. In particular, in romantic relationships, it shouldn’t be about struggle and endless arguments. It should feel natural and effortless.
We may misinterpret the lessons about our worth because we’re afraid to be the bad ones by saying no and leaving. However, inside we can hear the whispers of our heart that urge is to leave.