Don't judge too quick

Stories always has two parts.

Always emphasize, not compassion.

Take your stand and find out why they do what they do.

Take a step back and see the big picture in front of you.

Most of the time, we see things the way we want, even if that's not what our mind does.

Point out that this is a very powerful technique.

Even if people take it for granted. Politely. My kindness means a lot.