Love in breakups

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4 years ago


Breakups often feel like the end, because our identity is totally wrapped up in what we have lost. We are no longer able to recognize who we really are. 


Its not that we miss the person we uses to be in a relationship with, but that we miss the fantasy of who we thought they were. 


The fear of ending a relationship and moving on is always going to conflict with our need for certainty. One of human needs is certainty. People want to be certain about everything to avoid pain and stay in peace. 




Therefore most people tend to stay in unhappy relationships long after they that they need to end them! 


Either because they fear the future and do noe want to start over again OR  they invested years in that relationship and they hope it gets better one day. 




They are driven by fears and tend to do more to avoid pain than they are willing get what they want. 


It takes two who have mutual interest and respect to star any relationship and make it work. Otherwise its a waste of time and energy!. 




You have to create a space for what you want to show up in your life. Without that space, they can't manifest. 


Breakup is a wakeup call that is why it is pleasant!. 


Have a peaceful night rest. 

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