A newly married girl first comes to her father's house from her father-in-law's house. Then his mother is very interested to know how he felt in that house?
Then the girl says - good. But how are the people. What is the environment like. I do not like
Her mother saw a kind of frustration inside her.
ঐ The mother did not say anything to the daughter. The daughter began to visit her father's house with joy in her heart. After marriage, the girl came here and saw a different kind of love. Which has never been received before. Everyone loves him very much. He is appearing whenever he wants. He seems to be the guest of honor at his father's house. Everyone's affection and love is overflowing for him. At this time, when I think of my father-in-law's house, my mind becomes overwhelmed with anxiety. Here (father's house) how familiar is the sweet environment and there (father-in-law's house) everyone is unknown, everyone is dominant. There are two people who are very affectionate. Even then, somehow.
It took quite a while to see. It's time for the girl to leave. Just the day before she left, the mother entered the kitchen with her daughter. The mother lit a fire in the stove, took out a pot filled with water, and heated it. Once the water in the pot started boiling, the mother put carrots, eggs and coffee beans in the pot. Thus burn for about fifteen to twenty minutes. Then the mother put out the fire and removed the bone from the stove. Then pour the boiled carrots, eggs and coffee beans into the pot and put them in a bowl.
This time he addressed the girl
"Tell me if you understand from here"?
The girl expressed surprise and said-
- I saw you boiled carrots, eggs and coffee beans in a bowl.
Listening to her daughter's words, the mother said-
- Yes, you saw right. But here is a piece of advice for you. Which is why I took these. "The words I will tell you now are exactly what my mother told me. I don't know how much the words will benefit you, but it has affected my life a lot. "
Now listen to me very carefully. Because this advice may be the path to your new life. And this path will make you self-reliant, confident.
Look at the bowl. The things kept here have lost their former identity and become different. Before boiling the carrots were of a fairly hard type, the eggs were very light with a liquid inside, and the coffee beans were very hard. But when they were cooked, the three things became three kinds. The carrots became very soft, and the liquid part of the egg hardened and the coffee bean mixed with the water turned into a nice smell and sweet taste.
Mother paused and said-
"If you present yourself hard in your husband's house, like raw carrots, you will be confronted with a hostile environment, then because of your hardness, everyone will attack you mentally and some will physically weaken you and make you soft like a cooked carrot. It will lose your personality.
If you present yourself as soft-brittle, that is, like a raw egg. But everyone will grab you thinking they are helpless and weak, then hit you hard after injury and make your heart hard just like an egg.
But if you can control your condition by mixing yourself with the hostile environment with your love, the environment will become beautiful just like coffee beans mixing themselves with hot water makes the water delicious and fills the surroundings with sweet smell.
In this way, if you can mix yourself in your father-in-law's house, then your father-in-law's house will feel more like yours than this father's house. You will become the happiest married woman in the world with the love and respect of everyone there.
Lessons from the story:
Be a coffee bean in a whole new environment, don't forget to try carrots or eggs. Then you will be good anywhere in the world, to any person.
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