Hello po, I just only wanted to share my emotions here my problems of being or having a live in partner..i really don't understand why he really treats me like unworthy from him and he really much care of his sister, brothers and family of his own not ours... How could he let me feel so unlikely, unloved and he don't have any respect from me... He even have his own rules and regulations in our house but its all a bad example for our children.
Especially in terms of proper or good attitude values to our children, he don't like to discipline and teach our 3 children with proper way of attitude because he grow up with a mother of nothing! I mean his mother is a drunkard and always going out to gossip other people and to play tong its, and when no money left and already drunk that's the time to go home.. Then they fight each other in their house rumble... together with his siblings.. Guys pls. Help me I don't want to grow up my children with this kind of life what should I do.. Pls advice me...
Thanks you for reading...
I think you should let him know your problem. The best way to get away your children to that kind of lifestyle, is you and your family needs to have separate house from their family and live far away from them. Actually we have the same problem but my mother can sometimes control my father because she's brave enough to face them.