Good day my wonderfull family, hope you're all good? I must admit my Laziness this period regarding to my inactiveness, I've been choked up with work and laziness is playing a big part as well. Before now even in the midst of workload I still create time to engage here but now, the reverse is the case. I've missed reading your sweets Articles and I'll buckle up💪.
I'll be talking on being scarce to earn value. Not monetary value or points we earn when we play mobile games, no!
Like we all know, one of the characteristics of money is scarcity, that's what give it more value, permit me to say that scarcity the major control room of money, be it local, foreign or crypto currencies. When the supply of money in circulation become excessive, it looses values instantly.
Thesame goes with human, when you're being used to or always available, I bet you, your value will drop down. This is seen in every aspect of our lives, in family house, workplace, school, mosque, church etc. In some cases, it appears in different forms.
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In work places: This is your work place, where you earn a leaving, to stay clear here doesn't not mean you should stop the work, no. Let's say you're working in the midst of 10 staffs and it's only you that goes out to buy food for them during lunch because you're often Chanced at that period, a time woul come when you'd been seen and compared to an errand girl or boy. I'm not saying you're committing crime when going out to buy food for them, but try and cut it down, otherwise your value will drop. Scarce yourself!
Another common example again in the working sector is relationship within staffs, this is the worst, once you exposes yourself on a one time pleasure and it continues to countless times, your value will drop automatically in the eyes of guy/lady or to whole staffs that happens to know, whether you're the CEO or not. If a boss(make) is found on this category and an error occurs and he want to punish all the staffs, he'll find it difficult to do that because a girl in their midst has her weak point. I know it might be pleasure but scarce yourself otherwise...
In a family house setting, there's a period where you'd be termed as "not a baby anymore" or stage where you'd be seen as "overstayed". This is very common in Nigeria homes that are not that financially bouyant, if you graduate from the University and returned back to your family house, eating from the family pot and your efforts to get a jobs is not yielding positively, there'd be a time that you'll be getting unfriendly attitudes from your parents especially from the dad. At this time they just want you to go out and hustle like your mate, the more you stay, the more your value will be dropping. I love my parents so much but I knew that the only way to trigger them to display their endless Love is when I'm away or scarce. All through my schooling period I never fancied home the way people enjoy traveling every weekend. I'm not saying you stay off for a long time from your parents but when you know your presence is begining to drain down your value, scares yourself to earn value.
In relationship also, especially the new relationships,if you're too seen or too available, I bet you, your value will drop down. If all you do is calling and chatting him or her not minding he/she is at work, even if he/she is enjoying the company there'd be a time where you'd be seen as jobless and you know the meaning of jobless.🤦
There's this lady I normally talk with, a virtual friend in other states, sure we do enjoy the calls and chats, but I took it to myself that once I notice any sigb of snub or so, that's when I'd pack off without knowing her reason...I hate to be seen as clingy or buggy. One day, I chatted her and she didn't replied that day and the message was delivered, omo! I just let her be for a full week. Within this week, she dropped series of messages but I snubbed....(we got acquainted again but I earned my value).
In general, no matter where you find yourself, try not to make yourself to be too available to entertain rubbish. If your target has not reached to where you're aiming at and that has made you to stay in a spot and as well placed you in a condition where you'll be "seen finish", pray towards it, work hard and you will achieve it very soon.
Late last year, I was staying very close to my boss's wife's shop, where we share some stuffs(like, if my gas get exhausted and I have no money to fill it instantly, I'd take hers first to complete my cooking and return it later and the other hand, she does collect some stuffs in my house that they need in the shop). I was always seen in her shop because the work I was doing then demands me to stay around. I got a lot of attitudes from her, oftentimes I challenged her on her attitudes but...
To cut the Story short, I left that work and moved to another job that takes the whole of my time, I'm Hardly seen at home. Just last week that I stayed home, I decided to pay her a visit in her shop and the way she welcomed me was so surprising. I was like 'is this not that woman that used to see me as trash?" That's life for you!
Just scarce yourself to earn value
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