@Kiingsley 10 December 2021 more from that month

Other People's View on Dating Married Men *Hello my beautiful family. The weather here has been dripping cold, the early morning period is not a friendly one to people outside, especially the motorcyclist. I felt the coldness using a commercial motorcycle today. But that's the uniqueness of this season.*

My blog today will be talking about **THE PEOPLE'S VIEW** on dating married men. I don't know about the doctrines practised in your country but here in my country Nigeria, young girls/ladies dating married men is used to be seen as an offense in the sight of people but now...😢😢. I chose to use "used to" because it seems it's been made a general or normal way of life nowadays. The critics that are normally thrown against the lady and the man practicing such acts are no longer there, it's even practiced openly. Reading the title of my topic again, **"OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEW"** you'd agreed with me that in as much as people are finding it ease with the act, others are still frowning at it. Where are you? You're okay with it or against it? You know what's running in your mind already. My sponsors💯 I have a female co-worker **Deborah by name**, about 25years old that's dating a married man of about 60 years old and she's damn proud of herself. Meanwhile she has a boyfriend somewhere too and the boyfriend doesn't know about her girlfriend having a **"man friend"** One day, they(co-workers) were seeing a Nollywood movie and the movie was all about a young female student dating a wealthy married pastor for financial favour. At the long run, the pastor passed away after impregnating the young girl and all these while the family of the pastor were not aware. So it was after his death that the main saga came out. This led to Deborah saying that they shouldn't blame the girl that got impregnated by the pastor bla bla bla. Do you know why she said that? Because she is in same line with the girl. A big argument came out and Deborah was using her benefits to convince the other ladies to see it that there's nothing wrong in dating married men, that it comes with a lot of financial favour. Sincerely, Deborah has been living a life of 'no lack' because she's always buying and changing clothes, she doesn't touch her salary. All her expenses are on the man and these her flashy pattern of life got one of the ladies convinced that if she sees a married man, she'd date him so far the wife of the man won't give them problem. When I heard this! I got pained in my ear as if something was choked into my eardrum. I asked them a simple question; "what if you're eventually married and you found out that your husband is dating a young chic, won't you feel it?" Deborah said she would feel it for a just a moment and let it off. *Things are happening the world is turning upside down, you see how people see dating married men as no big issue?* Deborah was able to win three of them over to his side and they surrendered that they dating married men is good, that the young ones(guys) find it difficult to cater for their needs. This issue is very rampant here, I once had a female friend that her boyfriend was leaving a little bit far from her schoolling environment. She was staying in a house that the landlord later offered to give her free if she agree to date him. She later agreed and that was how she "enjoyed" free accomodations with other plenty offers because her boyfriend was not that buoyant financially. I came to know all these because I became a close friend to her and she let out every actions of her life to me. I asked her why she decided to cheat on her main boyfriend, she said I shouldn't call that cheating because he wasn't married to her boyfriend yet and beside the boyfriend doesn't know what's happening between her and the man. **It's getting out of hand!** ***Even people that are supposed to frown at those practicing it are loosing their ground. Even People that are supposed to preach against it are gradually practicing it.*** one day a man came to our office and one thing led to another, he said he has stopped fellowshipping in his church because he saw their church leader in an hotel in an odd hour of the night coming out with a young girl from the door opposite his room. Can you imagine that? I am not trying to paint anybody bad but this Current situation of this act is becoming alarming. OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEW...the men practicing this are taking it as pleasure and covering their eyes from the other side of it. OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEW...you might as well see it as normal due to the current stage and state of development of our dear environment. But...🧐 OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEW...as a married woman, what if you find yourself sharing your husband with a little girl of 17years? OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEW...let me drop my keyboard here👩‍💻. **Thanks for reading** **15days to Christmas💞🎅❇️🎄🎄** *Special thanks to everyone of you for the supports via your reads, likes, comments, upvotes, and sponsors. I love you all❤️*