Teach your children about Failure. Our elders have been telling us so much about the "hard work" that they forget to tell us about the basic words "luck" and "oppurtunity". They have been teaching us thay if we work we will get but they don't sit us down and talk about how luck plays an equally vital role. They talk so much about the word "success" that the word "failure" sounds weird and novel to us. They make us believe that future is exactly what we want it to be ,that they forget to teach us that we might not get enough opputunities to make it like that. No wonder why our youth loses their hope after their very first fall.They just give up and don't find it fruitful to go for the next trial. Their adults have been so busy telling them how to succeed they they forget to teach that this is what failure tastes like. Do teach them about hardwork but don't forget to mention about "luck" and "opportunity".