Can the mother's debt be repaid??
I did not have the strength to see the pain my mother had inflicted on me after I was born. So I didn't understand how much he was suffering. When I made my children human, I was busy making them human. I have never seen my wife suffer so much. And so naturally I did not understand his pain well. Then when I saw my own daughters making their children human, I was the ‘Observer’, sometimes helping a little bit. That's nothing. I saw what trouble they were making to make their own people human. They are doing this terrible trouble with a smile, without a little annoyance, with a lot of pride. Many have grown up to be human beings in the hands of their mothers but no one can repay the debts of their mothers. My father suffered a lot, but a friend of mine was right when he said, ‘Dad is not so big as my mother’ no one else.
After the child is born she seems to just sleep. He has to be fed. Is to keep clean. Is to keep comfortable. Is to keep safe. He has to keep an eye on all his needs. But the child cannot say anything. Her only language is crying. But mother understands all her needs and is meeting all her needs in time. Awesome. Incomparable. Everything is happening, so we don't understand how hard it is for mom to make it happen. How many sacrifices to accept. The child wakes up at night for various reasons. Cries. Mother stopped her crying. The mother finds out the reason why the child is crying. Because the mother removes. The child stopped crying and fell asleep. Mom has to spend almost sleepless nights. Others may help but the mother is responsible for everything. After a sleepless night, there is no opportunity to rest during the day. Mother is responsible for all the work in the world. And besides that, the child has many needs. Who will look after those needs without mother?
Then when the child grows up, new problems start to appear. Mom doesn't think those are problems. He solved the problem with a smile. Remember to keep the baby clean. When it is a little older, the baby does not stay still for a moment. Not even for a moment in one place. He does not understand that it is difficult to clean him if he does not cooperate. She doesn't understand that it takes a lot of time for her to do what she wants if she doesn't cooperate. Many babies cry again. This is how the mother cleans the baby. Keep him clean. It also happens that the mother, after a lot of hard work, cleans herself the moment she finishes cleaning the baby. Undaunted, the mother resumed her work. Looks like something funny happened.
Child safety provisions. ‘Baap re baap’ comes out of his mouth without knowing it.
The problem starts when the baby starts crawling. And no one knows when it will end. Problems can come in many forms. The child can catch things that can harm him. For example, putting hands on hot things. The child learns to get up in different things. Such as furniture. There is no harm in getting up. But that is the danger of falling. Another favorite hobby of children is pushing things. The problem is that things sometimes turn upside down and the kids get injured when they fall right away. How many such accidents can happen due to various known and unknown reasons. There is no way to hide your eyes for a moment. But the mother has another job.
Mothers buy beautiful clothes for their children. Others also give a lot of gifts. All the mothers want to decorate the baby beautifully by wearing beautiful clothes. But dressing the baby is not an easy task. Trying to run away while getting dressed is his favorite. Some babies start crying again while getting dressed. In many ways, children get their clothes dirty again.
As the saying goes, if you don't cry, even Mao won't let you eat. The baby cried and the mother let him eat. That would have made life much easier. Some children do not want to eat. How many rules and regulations does the mother feed them? The kids want to do all the other things when they sit down to eat. Wants to run away Mother did not bother to feed them. How much patience is needed for this. This patience is felt by no one but the mother.
In the time of our mothers, women used to study as a hobby. To show that education is common in the family. A small number went to work. In our time girls have started going to work. Now the girls are going to work. Motherhood while doing the job. The task is not easy.
Sudhirlal Chakraborty is a respected singer of our time. He sang the song 'Madhur Amar Mayer Hasi'. That heart touching song. Singing the song caused a little trouble for himself. Many people just listened to this song. One line of the song says, ‘She is my mother, she is unmatched in the world. There is no one like mother in this universe.
My mom is my life...