Let Family ties be loving

Mother-father, brother-sister, grandparents are all a family. The family is an ancient and strong bond. A family has small and big members of different ages. Grandparents are the oldest. Grandchildren are young. Everyone in the family, young and old, has a happy atmosphere. The little ones kept the whole house smiling with joy. Their dancing and new mischief provide food for adults. Their lives grew with the caress and love of adults. According to the hadith, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘That person is not my ummah who does not show mercy to the little ones and does not respect the elders.’ Narrated Abu Hurairah: The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The best of you is the one who is better to his wife." (Tirmidhi: 1172)

However, the familiar form of family in love and affection seems to be disappearing day by day. In the name of modern culture, today's families are turning into a dumb family deprived of laughter and joy. This is having a bad effect on children. The cooling of the family bond means that the next generation will be heartless. But why? Why are our families losing that tradition and loving relationship? What is one reason? What are the consequences? What is the passage?

Greed for money: Greed for money is making people robots. Following the western culture, both parents are working outside the home. Making money. Meanwhile, their children are deprived of the affection and love of their parents. They rarely see their parents' faces. They are chasing after the child with the help of the work boy. As a result, the child's close spiritual relationship with his parents is lost. When parents are in this state, they do not know their grandparents.

Lack of relationship with the parents: One of the main occasions of family love and affection was the heartfelt relationship of grandchildren with grandparents. But now many couples are separated from their parents in the hope of happiness or for fear of incurring expenses. There are some couples who, being highly educated, begin to despise the birth parents and feel ashamed to introduce them. Children are not allowed to mix with grandparents. As a result, their children do not get the company of grandparents.

Children always like to be in laughter, joy, mischief and uproar. Parents are busy. Grandparents expelled. Children are forced to become addicted to various games. They do not get the opportunity to learn family etiquette together with their parents, grandparents and relatives and to grow up as good children. They do not have respect for adults and affection for children. Can't even learn social etiquette and sense of responsibility. With the wicked they become endangered very quickly.

Lack of sense of responsibility: The main responsibility of the parents is to keep the child on the right path and guide them in the right path. In a peaceful family, giving the child proper time and strengthening the family bond can have a profound effect on the child. She can learn a lot from her family. Loyalty, discipline, affection, love and affection are all things he receives from his family.

Do they ever think about the dire consequences of parents forgetting their children and family for the sake of money? Is money an asset? Isn't the child an asset? An ideal child is the real asset of the parents. But in the greed of money we are neglecting the children. We do not realize the responsibility of the child. I don't even observe. As a result, the child grows up and becomes disobedient to the parents. Family affection is not awakened in him. The mother and child do not realize how deep the heart relationship is.

Family First School: Family is the first school for a child. A child nurtured in an ideal family tradition is endowed with human qualities. She learns to understand respect and love for her parents. Responsibility and affection towards children. Respect and devotion to adults. The school family, which is big enough to awaken the sense of morality in children, is currently in a state of turmoil. The fire of unrest in every family. Monomalinya between parents. There may be monogamy, but exposing it in front of children is an abomination. The unrest of the parents is consuming the children. As a result, children are being deprived of that happy time of childhood. Being deprived of moral education. If this situation cannot be overcome, the next generation will be inhuman.

We should give time to the family. Creating strong family ties between parents, children, grandparents and grandchildren. Stop family quarrels. Children can see the shape of a human family. Understand the family bond. Avoiding Western culture in the name of modernity. The glamorous top of the Western world, free from family and social ties, just falls off, the inside is empty. They are now on the brink of destruction.

Remember, family is a force. Miraculous power. When people get upset and lost in a hostile environment, they find comfort, strength and motivation in the family. When the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was rejected and humiliated by the disbelievers when he went to preach Islam, he received a cool kiss from his family. Let every family be loving. May human qualities develop in every heart

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