All things happen for a reason, But we all have to focus on the good side of it and learn from the mistake after we own it. The moment we begin to blame other people for the mistakes we made, we distance our self from the lessons we might gain. But if we are to stand our ground and say “ My life, my responsibilities". the possibilities of learning something new will move towards us.
Admitting the mistake we made was never too easy, but it makes it possible to focus away from the blame and towards understanding. Wise people admit their mistakes. They know progress accelerates when they do. This advice runs counter to the cultural assumptions we have about mistakes and failure, namely that they are shameful things. We were taught to feel guilty about failure and to do whatever we can to avoid mistakes. The shame of the mistakes combined with the inevitability of setbacks when attempting difficult things explains why many people give up on their goals. They were not prepared for the mistakes and failures they will face on their way to what they want.
One of the important life lessons we learn will be from the bad decisions we make. Experience can be an excellent teacher, As you actually learn a lesson from your poor decisions. We are Experienced from the way we are living, and the adjustments we make. It also comes from suffering, agony, and the ordeals that we have been through.
Learning from our mistakes will prevent us from the risk of repeating them. One needs to develop the sense to make good decisions and choices. We only developed good judgment when we truly learned from the previous bad decisions we made.
For some people, it takes a few repeats of the same mistake to learn the lesson. But unfortunately. for some people it takes several times.
