The day my marriage was settled, Maria came and said, 'Dude, your happy life is over! There is no peace after marriage, Ray. Mother-in-law, Nanad, I will be impatient with their irritation. I smiled softly and said, well see.
The first day she went home after marriage, there were a lot of people around the house. There was a lot of fear inside. After a while, the mother-in-law came and whispered, "Mother is afraid? No. The whole day was very stressful on the wedding day. I didn't eat anything. I was very hungry. But I couldn't tell anyone.
Just then I saw my mother-in-law coming to the room and chasing out those who were tuktuk. After everyone left, I saw my mother-in-law bringing food on a plate. It felt so good then!
He came to me and said, 'I know, mother, you are very hungry. The whole day was disturbed! Something was not eaten. It happened on my wedding day. I could not tell anyone ashamed. Hahaha.
I laughed too. Then he started to feed mekhe himself. He remembered my mother's words later. He understood the matter and said, 'I feel bad for my mother, I understand? Lagatai is natural. But I am also your mother. I will suffer. Remember? '
I looked at him and shook my head with a smile. He put his hand on my head. At first I couldn't cook. I could make some snacks. The rest of the work was done by my mother-in-law. She never said anything about it. But I felt bad about myself. I couldn't and she didn't say anything but I didn't sit back. , I was standing next to him. At one point I started trying on my own. Mother-in-law used to turn her hand on her head and say 'Wow, the girl is growing up!'
I would laugh then. The first day I started cooking. Everyone was very appreciative of the food. I was very happy. I thought it might have been good. When I ate it was so bad to eat! But I was very surprised by everyone's praise. The mother-in-law said with a soft smile, "No one can do anything in a perfect way for the first time. The best comes out at once. The first time it has been much better."
Nanda said, "I like Bhabhi but one day. One day you will be able to cook better than my mother. Take my word for it. Whether the cooking of the day was good or bad, but those beautiful words of everyone helped to become a good cook later on.
The support of the people around you is very much needed to adapt to an unfamiliar environment. If I ever made a mistake, I would explain it nicely. If I was upset for any reason, everyone would make me feel better together.
In order to form a beautiful family, everyone has to understand everyone in the family. Happy family does not mean that they are not proud of their values. We used to be proud of our values but no one cared about it.
When I was arrogant, my mother would come and say, 'Who knows where the arrogance of today's boys and girls comes from, Bapu! I don't like the world anymore!'
I used to laugh and hug. Again, when my mother was arrogant, I would walk around her and say, 'No one likes me on the bus! Everyone is just arrogant!'
My mother used to turn her face away and say, 'I am very happy now. Don't you remember the time of suffering? I would hug my mother and say, 'I understand that mothers get hurt by girls' words!'
My mother used to smile and say, 'You have become very mature. We used to keep our anger and pride in the house. Aunty from the next house used to come and say, she has got a very good wife. My daughter-in-law is absolutely.
Before Aunty finished talking, the mother said, 'Explain the mistakes of the children to others without telling them. You will correct them from next time. Think of her as your own daughter before you think of her as someone else's daughter or wife. She will love you as her own mother. Correct your daughter's mistakes as you correct her. Let's see if she can learn everything beautiful.
If adults don't teach in a beautiful way, how will children learn? And highlight the good qualities without highlighting the mistakes too much.
I said, 'Aunty is honest but goes to heaven. Since you are good, your wife is bound to be good too. Just give her your beautiful company then it will happen.
Aunty got up and left without saying anything that day. Mother sighed and said, 'Actually, we don't want to understand anyone! That's why there is so much unrest. I laughed and said, 'Not everyone is like you anymore, mother.'
My mother pulled me close and said, 'Not everyone is like you. Once I had a quarrel with Riyadh. My mother somehow understood that. As I started to walk past my mother's room, I saw her talking to Riyadh. My mother began to say, You're fighting over it too! You can't adapt! I taught you this? You won't talk to me anymore!
I went to the room. After a while Riyadh came and said with a dirty face, 'Mother is not talking to me for you. What magic did you do! I turned my face and said, 'Education should have been done. I will not forgive.'
Suddenly I had a high fever, my mother cried and said, 'Fella is a fever. How much trouble the baby girl is having to eat. I took my mother's hand and said, 'You are thinking unnecessarily. I'll see you tomorrow.'
On that day, my mother took Riyadh out of the room and stayed up all night serving her. I didn't feel any emptiness for my parents either. I realized that my mother-in-law and mother-in-law are not in my mother's place. I couldn't understand when my mother's place was occupied. In fact, my mother is my mother!
Once my mother's body was so bad that I had to be admitted to the hospital! I had to stay in the hospital for a whole week. Then it started to be so hard inside me! I stayed in the hospital with my mother.
The day my mother recovered, I felt as if I had found a measure of peace. Many months later, when I was coming to my father's house, my mother-in-law was crying. Nanad said from the side, 'The way you are crying, it seems as if I am going away for the rest of my life!
He looked at me and said, "Didn't I say right? Tell me what? My mother and I laughed then. On the way home that day, I met Maria on the bus. Maria picked up her groom from the seat next to her and sat me down and sent her groom to our seat.
Then he looked at me curiously and said, 'How is your married life going? Did you agree with me?'
I smiled and said, my life is not unbearable. But heaven is gone. Maria looked at him in surprise and said, then you are the king of fortune. You have got a good mother-in-law.
I said, all the mothers in the world are the best mothers. To them all the girls are princesses. But the thing is, first they have to become daughters. First they have to become their own. No! Your forehead and king's forehead will be.
Maria stared silently. I smiled softly and said, "Well, used to say, have you ever hugged your mother-in-law? Have you ever sat together and talked with a smile?" Maria frowned, "He never did."
I laughed a little and said, 'Seeing that he didn't do it, you didn't do it either! So where is the difference between him and you? You did it in the beginning.'
Maria took my hand and said, 'You're really good.' I also held his hand tightly and said, 'We are all good. Just no one wants to understand. No one wants to compromise! This is the problem.'
A few days later, Maria called and said, "Thank you friend. You taught me to understand differently. You know, my mother-in-law loves me so much now, I can't explain to you.
With a sigh of satisfaction, I thought, mother-daughter should not be made from wife-mother-in-law in every house of the world! Let a happy story be made in every house. What a loss!
Thank you.