What psychological facts can I use to be a more likable person?

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  • Enjoy yourself: You don’t always need to be around people. People will want to be with you when you are happy with yourself.

  • Admit your mistakes: Swallow your pride and always accept your mistake. Deflecting blame is always seen as a weakness.

  • When we hold onto our phone or set it in front of us on the table, it communicates that we value our device over who we’re with.

  • Be a gentleman, stay mannered, humble, and respect everyone you meet.
    This is the most crucial of all in making you look more likable.

  • Pretend your eyes are glued to your conversation partners with sticky warm taffy. Don’t break eye contact even after he or she has finished speaking. When you must look away, do it ever so slowly, reluctantly, stretching the gooey taffy until the tiny string finally breaks.

  • People like to feel heard, and being an active listener can make a positive impression. "Do this by staying engaged instead of focusing on what you’ll say next," says Henderson. "Make sure to listen more than you talk, and shoot for a ratio of listening three times more than you speak."

  • Energy is contagious. When we smile and are upbeat, it can make us more attractive. It also tends to trickle into others. Our vibe attracts our tribe.

  • Whether it’s easy or not, being honest with others is a sure-fire way to gain their trust as well as their respect.

  • If you a woman, a man will like you if you can make him feel masculine. No instructions, no advice and give him ample space.

  • If you a man, a woman will like you if you can make her feel beautiful, not just sexy. A high emotional quotient is also critical for a woman.

  • Generally, accepting others as he is, makes you most likable.

  • When a person can be his own self in your company without being judged, he loves you more.

  • Do not speak badly about others as this creates distrust.

  • Do not spread false rumors and do not make accusations.

  • Do not brag about your successes. Nobody likes a show-off.

  • Be humble.

  • Offer them food.

  • When with a group of people, including everyone in the conversation. Never leave anybody out.

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