The child should never be told these things
We gossip for the good of our own children; You might think that there is no harm in talking a little. That's not the point; Gossiping has many negative effects on your child's mind and personality. Not just negative effects; It's cracking!
Let's take a look at some of the things that children should never say to us: Let me be alone: Every human being needs to spend some time on their own. There comes a time in life when everyone wants to be alone for a while. But so the child can be told directly, "Let me be alone." This creates insecurity among them. That way you might not love him anymore.
Don't be like your brother or sister: Don't compare your child to his or her siblings. Every human being is unique. This kind of comparison of yours has a very bad effect on his personality and creates inferiority complex within himself. Which creates a serious psychological distress for the child.
Can't do anything right: A young child's ability to understand is limited. Yet he tries to perfect all the work. But that may not always be the case. This does not mean that it will not work.
Stop! If not, you are a mother: this is the word that almost all parents hear from their children. Whether or not you kill the child creates a rebellious attitude in his mind and makes the child stubborn and disobedient.
It would be nice if you weren't born: Don't tell your child this kind of thing, whether you're angry or for some other reason. This one word is enough to make every child hate you.
You're too fat or too dry: No baby should talk about his or her health. Because it creates self-loathing in him. So, refrain from talking about his body composition.
Hurry up: Your child may be too late for breakfast in the morning or too late to wear sneakers, making it too late for him to go to school. If you reprimand him for this or repeat the word, hurry up. Linda Accridolo, co-author (PhD) of Baby Minds, said:
So you gently tell him, "Let's hurry." Then he will realize that he is getting late. Speak in a soft tone: As a parent, speak to him in a soft tone, not with threats. This will not hurt his tender heart.
There is no doubt that every parent loves their children. But a lot of times we talk about things that hinder their mental growth and have a huge negative effect on them. So talk to your child with some caution.