Greetings to everyone. How are you? I share our thoughts with you that don't expect too much from others. Its too much hurting. Broken heart and feelings. People are selfish. They are not loyal with us. They just use us for our benefits. After our work completed they leave us alone .They don't fullfil our promise that they do with us.
Its natural when we are disappointed when our expectations are lost. Expectations give just sad and depression. Not everyone understands our feelings. If we try it we hurt ourselves.
I tell a story about my topic. It is real story. A girls live in our village. She is very beautiful and pretty. She is well mannered and have good character. Its reality girls have alot of dreams. But no guarantee to fulfill these dreams or anyone understands our feelings or help to fulfill these dreams. All of douths and hardships girls continuely see dreams because she have expects that someone comes in life and fulfill our dreams. Thats types of expectation give sad and sorrow .That's why girls are totally broken inside and don't tell something to othet because everyone says thats its your own faults. But nobody understands the feelings of this girl.
Go to the point
Same like happen with this girl . She is very pretty and lovely. But same other girls she have a lot of dreams for our future. She loves to someone hiddenly. But have expects that not all but someone will be understood his feelings and give his those she want. But its a life. And noboday know what's has happen and when.
When the time comes for engagged to her and chose his partner, situations are totally changed . Nobody understands his feelings and everyone find our benefits and give importance of our relations .Nobody ask his what's you want?
She totally break inside and hurt to much. His own expectations give his alot of disappointments and sorrow. Totally situation change .
Why nobody understands this girl??
Nobody understands this girl or his feelings. She start crying and feel too much hurting. Why this happened with me? She tell why this happened with me?
The only reason for this she have too much expectations to our elders that they understood her. And specially those she loves him but he didn't tell any things to elder. He enjoying moment. I don't know why he don't tell something but he shows that he is very selfish person.
He just do for our benefits. He not loves her that's why he didn't tell anything. And just see what has happened.
Its too much wrong to play with other feeling .Girls are very weak insidely she broken rapidly as well as she sees dreams rapidly and she trust everyone rapidly.
But the girl is very hurt and she is feeling very bad. She want to die. She said she don't want to live.
All of this just for expectations. If she don't have expects to other she kive happily today. She enjoys our life. But sadly she feel very hurting and she spend life very sad.
Expectations give us
Expectations to other is a very bad thing. Its just hurting too much .
If we have expectation to other we face many bad situations .we are disappointed. We feel following things if we have expectations to other like ,
√Disappointments
√Depression
√Stressed
√Boring life
√Sadness
√Always complain other
√Don't enjoy any moment
√Sorrow
Closed thoughts
The purpose for this story is that don't have too much expects to other. Expectations give us disappointment. When we have expects to other its not surety that he will be sinsior with us. Exceptation just break us and hurt us. iIf we have expects to other its mean to chose sadness for whole life .
Its natural we feel disappoint when oyr expectations are not fulfill. So we should try and 100% try that don't have too much expectations to other. Its good for us and for others .By this, we live happily and we don't have any complain with others.
We will not hurt and not broke insidely.We spend our life happily and enjoying our life moments and events.