What Poor Communication Can Do To Your Marriage.

How you communicate to your better half makes all the difference. You might be as peaceful and harmless as an angel but the moment you miss out on communicating rightly, the environment will always be tensed.

There are ways you will say something and it will bring about so much joy, serenity and calm and there are ways you will say the same thing and it will just spoil everything and bring about so much hate and anger.

You might be a very peaceful and loving husband/wife but once you communicate wrongly, such amazing attributes of yours won’t be felt. And if you keep communicating that way, you will gradually be forcing your partner to restrain from discussing some kinds of sensitive topics with you.

Communication might seem as easy as it is mentioned but effective communication is a skill you learn and improve on daily. To be able to communicate with your peers, family, friends, roommates and spouse in a way that will bring about a peaceful response and feedback, you need to keep improving on your effective communication skills on daily basis.

The choice of words you mention is another great deal here. Some people actually know what to say but how to say it and what choice of words to use is a big challenge. Some women are very pushfull and encouraging but the choice of words they use, the way they communicate it and the time at which they do so just spoils everything.

It is not easy to communicate rightly. The way you will communicate and the choice of words you will use is directly influenced by your state of being. When you are angry, you can be tempted to voice rubbish and just spoil everything that has taken you years to build. That is why you need the help of the Holy Spirit to be able to practice self-control to the highest (Galatians 5:22-24). There are other people who whether happy or angry will always voice wrong words. To help yourself, you need to be self-conscious and always try as much as possible to listen to yourself talk so that you will know when to stop in case you hear yourself mentioning very wrong and hurtful words.

When you talk too much, you end up communicating wrongly, voicing wrong words and hurting people around you. Before you talk, judge your words in your heart to see that if someone else where to mention them to you, they won’t hurt you. Read the Scriptures for help and guidance.

The way you communicate can either make or mal your relationship with others and your marriage. A solid marriage foundation stands on the Word of God and on the basis of good effective communication.