Falling in love

Love love love what is love every little boy wants to fall in love every little girl needs a lover

love is blind, love is caring, love is not selfish, love is lasting, love is ever forgiving .

But most times we are confused if what we really feel for someone is actually love.

Most of the time being desperate to have a lover makes us start up a love relationship out of confusion not knowing if it is actually love we feel for them because we want to have someone in our lives so we end up with the wrong people.

We might love them but it will be one-sided.

If you love someone or when love is existing because the person you are with is intelligent then you don't love that person you just admire them. imagine what will happen if that intelligence is no more there then automatically the love will vanish immediately.

Or you love her because she is hot then you don't love her what you feel love for her it is purely desire ,yes purely lustful feelings is what it is not love as you think it is because you always want to have sex with her and you cannot stay with her if she's is not giving it to you.

in that situation imagine what will happen if the sex is not there. imagine what will happen to the relationship if she is not letting you to touch her or grope her butt automatically the attraction will fade awag and you will want to break up with her.

Or if you are in love with because she is pretty then it is not love you feel for her it is attraction ,imagine what will happen if she had an accident and the face was ruined in the process, the love you feel for her will just disappear like as if it never existed.

Or ladies you love him because he has the money and can take care of you bear it in mind you don't love him but his money, Love is blind for a reason.

Or you love him because he is funny that is he makes you laugh then what do you think will happen if he suddenly becomes busy with work that he doesn't have time to have a romantic dinner with you or not time for pillow talks then the relationship will suddenly become boring and you will want to quit.

Or you love him because he is caring then what is will become of your relationship if he is not caring anymore then the spark of the relationship will quench and you will give up on him.

So you see any reason that makes you feel you are in love with someone is not love at all because love is blind for a reason.

NOTE : Teenagers also tend to profess their love not knowing really what love is or what they feel inside.

Yes teenagers have a that stage of their life a lot of hormonal levels that are not balanced ,with the sex hormones and the grow hormone spiking up and down at any moment trust me they tend to make a lot of mistakes with love and end up being hurt or hurting others.

Love exist only when you love a person for no reason.when i say for no reason i mean no reason at all.

Love is when you want to be with someone for no reason

Not the money

Not the beauty

Not because they are caring

Nothing at all.

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