You never really know until you try

What differentiates success from failure is often not trying. A loser is never someone that tries and fails, but someone that doesn't try at all. The one who gives it a try is at least brave to face  challenges, but the one who doesn't is a loser and a failure because there's not even a courage to give it a try. Rocks don't move themselves do they? No, someone got to move them but what's certain is that they naturally occur, naturally just there to obstruct your process, all that's left is for you to either move it and walk through or leave it there and turn back. Any which way, a decision must be taken and that decision is what differentiate a loser or failure from a winner or succeful person. Move the rock and go through or leave it there because you're too lazy to try. 

You never really know until you try

As long as life continues, people are bound to first up with things that require choices and decision making, things that will need courage to overcome, things that will need bravery to push ahead. Life's a journey on a narrow track and also a wide track. The track which appears easy to go through often leads to destruction, but the track which is narrow with a lot of obstructions therein is what is worth going through. Nothing should be easy to get so if anything is, then watch it because it's not worth risky anything. Like I said, failure isn't about failing but more of quiting or not trying at all, also seeking a short-cut is a definition of failure. When one tries to reduce an activity that should have taken longer to play out perfectly, he ends up spoiling the fun and causes desastar. Same principle applies to life, try to escape it's long-term design and watch yourself destroying your future, it's just that simple of a formula.

Sometimes all people need is a little push in the back to realize they purpose.

Well it is not entirely easy to make the right decisions most times, but a positive push can always get the job done. Realizing one's purpose could be tasky, but if observative measures are taken then it should be a piece of cake. Just as drastic measures need to be taken when making decisions, they are also required for one to realize his purpose and then actualize it. I've learnt one thing in reality and that is that one doesn't always have to walk along in this journey of life, with the right people by your side, this tough and somewhat long and horrific journey of life may turn out to feel sudden and less painful. Having the right company affects one's totality because his environment is his first companion, the treatment he gets from it's immediate habitat is what may affect the most part of his life. Your company is also classified as your environment because you live within these reach, that's an habitat. So having a supportive, productive and positive minded people in your reach, your company or environment has a bigger role to play in forming you. 

So then this implies that from your company of friends should lie your strength and weaknesses, choose the right company. 

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