Three things people always try running from, but end up running into;
Problems, pain and lost!
Are we cursed? Uhm I wouldn't put it that way, but I would rather say these things are necessities... We got to walk through our problems to find peace, we got to fight through our pain to find happiness, and we also got to be strong through out any amount of lost we encounter!
Problems are necessary, pain are eventualities, and lost are occasionally. You call it torture but I call it lessons!
It takes both the sun and the rain for a flower to grow... How do you interpret that?
Let me break it down for you...
What this phrase simply means is that, when we find joy in a minute, then we should expect hurt in the next, because that's a part of growing up!
If a child grows up not knowing problems, pain and lost. Then that child is pron to dangers humans imagination can't perceive. A part of growing up is being strong through tough times, the rain coming down on you are showers of blessings from God, but then you should expect the sun to equally come out and lay it's hot rays on thy skin, thy shall know suffering but it's all part of growing up!
Both weathers are necessary to grow a plant right? The rain may come to water the plants, then it may also come and wash it away with flood!
The sun may come out in the morning and that will put a smile on everyone's face, being that the rain has passed. But then on approaching noon it's rays becomes hot upon the earth causing everyone to suffer from it's burn. That right there is a definition of a blessing is equally a curse!
One moment it's pleasing, the next moment we complain, yes we are human we are bound to this things...
Things can't always favor us! But what is certain is that these turmoils are just a part of growing up!
One can never be stronger if he hasn't faced what tested his strength...
We become stronger as life gets tougher!
Life can never get easier so we always have to expect the worst!
Own to your problems rather than run from it!
Deal with your pain, rather than submit to it!
Get over your lost, rather than sink in it!
There's a better world but not an easier one, every situation has a lesson to teach and a man to rebuild!
Hope This Makes Sense!
Good one